I just read a book called come as you are. I personally didn’t realize how much our organs are the same. This author shows them as such and I some medical in my background but still never saw it this way.
The power of mind over vagina is much greater than brain over penis any day.
A young woman might not have control of herself- I slept around 3 times in a short frame of time when I was younger and I never did things like that again.
It clarified there is a clear difference to me between just having sex and doing it with someone that matters. For me just doing it doesn’t even get me horny enough to get off so. It was not worth feeling worthless. Ever tell someone you expect to test the goods before they are yours to see if it’s even worth it?
Woman don’t think way. If you’re right your equipment will be too, period. If your not it doesn’t matter what to it package looks like or how well it operates.
So for a woman, to turn off hormones is as easier than the push of a button most of the time and I’ve found people don’t ever really understand well if I’m angry/hurt- good luck. 
Not all woman are like this. Some will sleep around forever, some never will etc- same as men. Some don’t learn what it their heart still longs for etc.
But when we get horny, even at a bad time- it doesn’t usually become a matter of doing something stupid to get laid. Okay think of some asshole or some bad moment- .02 seconds later any chance of me becoming hornet is gone.
I stopped the reaction and then I took action in my mind to make sure. I’ll be damned if I’ll do anything I don’t want to. Including feels- all of them.
Usually if a woman puts out and regrets it, she had higher hopes for the relationship than the other person did, or the other person paid her with lip service and false promises.
I would personally use lust magic generically to make you more attractive, more noticeable. You can sit by someone for years and never notice them. I wouldn’t use it to influence whether or not someone wants you, fake feels don’t usually last and would not in many cases lead to sex.
Targeted at that type of woman sure, target at the type you want? The good, honest, faithful women? Yeah no. There’s exceptions, we all know about date rape drugs and men swooping in when we are traumatized, but for the most part unless we are traumatized and abused, woman don’t need to waste their time.
I can get fucked all day long everyday of the week if I pay attention to the male cues and respond to them. I may have had trouble finding good men, but getting laid? Come on. As a woman there’s always some dude who would do you cuz he really wants to, or worse. The offers get way worse than hey I’m a man player and I’m going to fck you cuz I decided you’re the next trophy.
Unless of course we’re going for the lots of sex and babes thing, in which case ignore me. The types of women who put out freely will probably line up for ya 
Otherwise, if you want a real long term relationship don’t target your magic at the other gender this way. Target it at bringing out your best qualities, becoming a better person, being the kind of man the type of person woman you want considers worthy of her time etc.
Personally. I can’t say anyone’s ever definitely tried to use love or lust magic on me, but want to talk about annoying when I’ve already said no, deflected a flirt or whatever?
If a man can’t respect whatever my first response was, he won’t get any further no matter how hot he looks. Not to mention after some of the stuff I’ve been through, pressure me with magic and I’ll bolt. You’ll come across as a predator.
I’ve been caged by a man before and I’ll be damned if anyone will do that again l, if I have anything to do about it so.
Lots of magic will cause a trigger finger like response in targets that have been through traumas.
Sometimes when magic goes to shit and no one gets why, I think they should look at the mental and emotional state of the target.
Someone who has had to heal, grow, develop and survive is going to react differently than someone who hasn’t had to.