How do you all date as magicians?

Im in Arkansas prime bible belt I would love to know how you guys find magical partners? Im newly single so this is strange to me so far hell I had to figure out somewhat how to use a snapchat lol

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Honestly the bible belt is a pain for real they think im a satanist lol

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I met my wife over Facebook so online dating is probably a safe bet :man_shrugging:t3:

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You can always magick one up. Do a spell then put yourself out there.

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This does work really great ,

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I date like a normal human being, before anyone here was a “magician” they were normal human beings (still are lol) my only advice is don’t limit your choice of partner with “she/he gotta practice magukz!” or you’ll limit yourself, or like Unseelie did, online dating. That’s actually how I met my boyfriend online, we just so happen to live 20mins from one another now within the same house lol.

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Here’s a different point of view.

I don’t want to date a practicioner. I don’t need a partner that can read my mind or evoke demons to bite my ass if we break up. Before you call me a pessimist consider if relationships really went that great we’d all have settled down with our first one and lived happily ever after… sadly and realistically this is not the case.

So I decided I’m absolutely not into a relationship with a practicioner. Give me a normie lol.

“Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”… :open_mouth:

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Yep, pretty much this. I don’t want a partner that practices magick. Just gimme a big boobie bitch and I’ll be good to go.

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:point_up_2: this! Yes! @Verdo is both wise and powerful. :smiley:

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Plus, partners into magick come with a whole another dimension of problems. Dealing with humans is enough trouble as it is. It’s better to have a simple human and hide your craft, then discuss activities with others in a community.

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My bf doesn’t practice he’s just a semi open minded agnostic lol, he knows about my tarot decks and that’s it. My practice is mine anyway it doesn’t need to be shared with my significant other for me lol.

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I’m also not looking for an occultist. But tolerance of the shot they’ll see in my house is helpful if I don’t want them to run away :slight_smile:

I don’t really do more than casual dating, a fluffy practitioner who’s interested and tolerant but not awfully opinionated is ideal. Something like a tarot card reader, crystal collector or pagan is great.

I avoid xtians especially Catholics like the plague. I also care about start sign and generally avoid Leo, Taurus and Pisces.

As for where to find them, be specific in your profile, if you use a site like OK Cupid or a premium site, people will actually read it and you get less scammers - there are tons of those so be careful.

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Albeit I thought it was good to not having to hide and being able to use more implements, indeed dating another practicioner may present problems too :fearful: :grin:
In any case, there may also be entities helping with that goal, such as the servitor/genie Izabael and (started working with him this month) Lucifer.

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In Australia and no doubt elsewhere in the western world, statistically you’re most likely marrying or forming a relationship with someone who will become your ex. Also, I just couldn’t be bothered with all the (‘I own the pussy, so I make the rules’) entitlement issues. Haven’t had a coffee with a woman in fifteen years. I don’t look like an Alpha male, and I don’t own a Rolex but I’m OK on cost/benefit analysis. That’s not to say all women are bitches, just that any of them could be.

Al.

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Haha interesting topic

I was wondering about the same. I finally met a person in real the other day that I was having a loose internet friendship with for a year. Turns out he got into magick too.I feel like for a relationship to work if both practice magick both need to be really grounded asf !?

I dont want to imagine two unstable practicioners of black magick with vampiric tendencies that also happen to be artists~

BUT if you do look at powerful magicians, usually their wives/husband are practicioners too

And one word : sex magick.

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Lmao best case scenario :laughing:

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yes and no LOL

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I moved to West Virginia and am surprised at the granny magic that goes on here. Some hoodoo practitioners too. There’s a tarot reader in my small hometown. I was like “What?! A tarot reader in hillbillyville? No way!” But every time I go pass her shop, she’s never open. :laughing:

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I meet my s/o in college. Something to consider and meditate on is if dating a practioner is something you want. If so, why?
I feel that some cases of people only wanting to date magicians is more of a love for the aesthetic of magic - as opposed to genuinely wanting to date a magician.
Also, two magicians dating and breaking up seems like a great way to nuke the existence of one another - messy stuff.

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I dont, nor have any plans to do so. However for others, I assume its as any relationship, you make time for it. And communicate, and tell them youre a magician, the one that stays is the one.

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