How do you all date as magicians?

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Im in Arkansas prime bible belt I would love to know how you guys find magical partners? Im newly single so this is strange to me so far hell I had to figure out somewhat how to use a snapchat lol

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Honestly the bible belt is a pain for real they think im a satanist lol

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I met my wife over Facebook so online dating is probably a safe bet :man_shrugging:t3:

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You can always magick one up. Do a spell then put yourself out there.

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This does work really great ,

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I date like a normal human being, before anyone here was a ā€œmagicianā€ they were normal human beings (still are lol) my only advice is donā€™t limit your choice of partner with ā€œshe/he gotta practice magukz!ā€ or youā€™ll limit yourself, or like Unseelie did, online dating. Thatā€™s actually how I met my boyfriend online, we just so happen to live 20mins from one another now within the same house lol.

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Hereā€™s a different point of view.

I donā€™t want to date a practicioner. I donā€™t need a partner that can read my mind or evoke demons to bite my ass if we break up. Before you call me a pessimist consider if relationships really went that great weā€™d all have settled down with our first one and lived happily ever afterā€¦ sadly and realistically this is not the case.

So I decided Iā€™m absolutely not into a relationship with a practicioner. Give me a normie lol.

ā€œHell hath no fury like a woman scornedā€ā€¦ :open_mouth:

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Yep, pretty much this. I donā€™t want a partner that practices magick. Just gimme a big boobie bitch and Iā€™ll be good to go.

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:point_up_2: this! Yes! @Verdo is both wise and powerful. :smiley:

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Plus, partners into magick come with a whole another dimension of problems. Dealing with humans is enough trouble as it is. Itā€™s better to have a simple human and hide your craft, then discuss activities with others in a community.

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My bf doesnā€™t practice heā€™s just a semi open minded agnostic lol, he knows about my tarot decks and thatā€™s it. My practice is mine anyway it doesnā€™t need to be shared with my significant other for me lol.

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Iā€™m also not looking for an occultist. But tolerance of the shot theyā€™ll see in my house is helpful if I donā€™t want them to run away :slight_smile:

I donā€™t really do more than casual dating, a fluffy practitioner whoā€™s interested and tolerant but not awfully opinionated is ideal. Something like a tarot card reader, crystal collector or pagan is great.

I avoid xtians especially Catholics like the plague. I also care about start sign and generally avoid Leo, Taurus and Pisces.

As for where to find them, be specific in your profile, if you use a site like OK Cupid or a premium site, people will actually read it and you get less scammers - there are tons of those so be careful.

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Albeit I thought it was good to not having to hide and being able to use more implements, indeed dating another practicioner may present problems too :fearful: :grin:
In any case, there may also be entities helping with that goal, such as the servitor/genie Izabael and (started working with him this month) Lucifer.

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In Australia and no doubt elsewhere in the western world, statistically youā€™re most likely marrying or forming a relationship with someone who will become your ex. Also, I just couldnā€™t be bothered with all the (ā€˜I own the pussy, so I make the rulesā€™) entitlement issues. Havenā€™t had a coffee with a woman in fifteen years. I donā€™t look like an Alpha male, and I donā€™t own a Rolex but Iā€™m OK on cost/benefit analysis. Thatā€™s not to say all women are bitches, just that any of them could be.

Al.

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Haha interesting topic

I was wondering about the same. I finally met a person in real the other day that I was having a loose internet friendship with for a year. Turns out he got into magick too.I feel like for a relationship to work if both practice magick both need to be really grounded asf !?

I dont want to imagine two unstable practicioners of black magick with vampiric tendencies that also happen to be artists~

BUT if you do look at powerful magicians, usually their wives/husband are practicioners too

And one word : sex magick.

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Lmao best case scenario :laughing:

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yes and no LOL

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I moved to West Virginia and am surprised at the granny magic that goes on here. Some hoodoo practitioners too. Thereā€™s a tarot reader in my small hometown. I was like ā€œWhat?! A tarot reader in hillbillyville? No way!ā€ But every time I go pass her shop, sheā€™s never open. :laughing:

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I meet my s/o in college. Something to consider and meditate on is if dating a practioner is something you want. If so, why?
I feel that some cases of people only wanting to date magicians is more of a love for the aesthetic of magic - as opposed to genuinely wanting to date a magician.
Also, two magicians dating and breaking up seems like a great way to nuke the existence of one another - messy stuff.

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I dont, nor have any plans to do so. However for others, I assume its as any relationship, you make time for it. And communicate, and tell them youre a magician, the one that stays is the one.

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