Or refuse to work with her, I’ve had bad experiences before (not with Lilith) and they majorly crossed lines and laughed about it. So I won’t work with them, not all of them are friendly with people, not all of them have your best interest, some just view you as an energy source or worse.
Some pretend to be friendly to manipulate you later, others have an agenda that isn’t in your best interest, some just don’t like people.
I’ve heard of Lilith just using people for energy before in discarded them when they served their purpose.
The problem with occult message boards in general it is either makes them look perfect and they will do no harm or completely evil and very very rarely are either true.