"How can I ensure that my advisor at university treats me well and does his job?"

Self-Defense & Protection Magick
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well, hello everyone. i am new here and searching for advice for my boyfriend. he is a philosophy student at university and he has a very problematic advisor. my boyfriend had to discuss his erasmus+ process with him but he’s not helping at all. he kept saying that my boyfriend is not capable of understanding anything he had said before and insulted him repeatedly, but none of those things he said are true because i know him, he was always so kind to the advisor, listened and did what he said. also he studies a lot, tries so hard and he has almost GPA 3.00. he just wants to be sure what he’s doing, he’s dealing with depression and anxiety. he really deserves a good academic future but his advisor keeps pulling him down which is very unjust. he literally managed his complicated erasmus process almost his own, because everyone at faculty administration he asked for help is just caused this topic become more complicated. for the last few days he’s suffering from some symptoms of severe depression and anxiety and it’s worsening, thanks to stress caused by his advisor’s attitude.

the thing is, we couldn’t find anything for soften his advisor’s perspective towards him, we tried some rituals from gallery of magic books. we are new in these topics as you can see, we don’t know how to protect ourselves in a spiritual way AND how to attack if needed. is there a way to soften his advisor’s attitude for making him more uplifting, helpful and unprejudiced towards my boyfriend?

thank you guys all, you’re really appreciated.

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Look into "honey jars’. Sweetening relationships of all kinds is exactly what they are for. Often used for romantic targets but will work for any relationship you want “sweetened”.

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thank you for your reply, i heard it is for romantic issues and it got me concerned because someone here, i think, described the ritual in a “romantic” way (using a red bow or red pen for romanticism i think…) so i am wondering if i perform it that way, is it going to be effective as i wanted the result be?

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It’s true that most people, on a forum like this, when talking about “relationships” do mean romantic, but that is not the only use of that word in English: it refers to any kind of personal connection, and you can also have spatial and causal relationships between objects, among other things.

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It’s very important as a mage to be aware of the power words have over you, and to take control of them, not just let them sweep you along with common usage. Words can cage you in without you even knowing, or lie to you, or twist your intentions. Be very careful with your intentions and use words exactly, when others don’t, and you will be in command.

Absolutely! :smiley: It’s YOUR magick, not the magick of whoever wrote the article, post or filmed a video - they gave you the template, you EDIT the words to suit your intention and make it work as you desire.

Can you imagine if you did someone else’s honey jar and their target to find you and be nice to you? Doesn’t happen. Same - if you can switch up the target you can also adjust the intent. The overall energy is “make this relationship better”.

I’m also pretty sure you can find examples online of people using these for clients, for work colleagues and teachers as well. Your imagination is the limit.

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thank you so much, your words will help me understand it better a lot!