Help with manipulative parents

The equation is they’re using me cause they know if they steal money “for rent” off me then I can’t buy my own place and if I buy my own place they don’t get paid anymore and they know I don’t like the thought of being homeless

Soooo what better way to manipulate me then take my money away so I can’t move out and then blackmail me with homelessness if I don’t give you access to my bank accounts

So I’m stuck in a hole here cause I’m stuck paying them otherwise I’m homeless

And If they see me with extra money or if I get a new job they’ll just raise the amount

What demons could I call to help me out of this cause it’s been like this for years and I’m 21 and stuck here cause of this…so I desperately need to do something

And I am wondering if they would be able to help me fast and not like in the next 10 years so I’m wondering if specifying that with whichever demons you recommend will even help.
Cause the moment they see me getting more money they will make me pay more

Thanks guys

Cause once this is all over finally I feel like I want to cut contact with my family and that’s sad I shouldn’t feel like I want to do that but they just abuse and manipulate me to get money off me

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Can you hide it if you’re getting more money?

There’s no reason for them to have access to your bank accounts. That’s fucked.

Can you figure out a way to dupe them about what you’re making?

Is there a possibility of couch surfing with friends til you find a place to rent?

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Nope

And nope they blackmailed me with homelessness to have access to everything in my life that has to do with money

And the last thing I want to resort to is baneful magick cause it’s family I can’t do that and plus hurting them isn’t gonna do anything for me

So I don’t know which demons like from the goetia or something can help with different tasks essentially getting me tf out of this house

Damn, that’s some major bullshit dude.

Can you make money “off the books” (cash)?

They’ll notice the money missing then blackmail to get it off me or like my mom tried once

Here hide it in my room so it doesn’t get lost

Which I wasn’t trusting that with a SECOND

And I think EA was homeless at one point was he not?

Or almost was at least

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Money that isn’t deposited or otherwise recorded can’t be “missing”.

It’s only missing if you knew there was something to be missed. Thats why I said cash.

Yes he was.

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They’d see it in my transaction history that I went to an ATM

Bruh.

You’re not getting it.

I mean, working for cash money (or whatever way you can make cash) and never putting it into a known account or whatever.

You just stash it away.

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It’s set up for a direct deposit and I think if I changed it or got a new job they’d figure it out

i might suggest you try to open a second bank account if possible to save / hide extra money, and petition wealth spirits for extra money to put into into it. Perhaps changing jobs in addition can help you lie and hide how much you’re making.

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My magick advice is to ask a demon for advice.

My real-world advice is… Can you apply for an apartment with the money that you’re making (they’ll probably want your paystub) and then when you’re accepted into one just change your bank passwords/restrict their access/etc. and move out?

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Non magic answer: Are you in college? Can you live on campus and set aside money to get your own place? Can you take a semester abroad and then just don’t move back in (changing passwords and permissions)?

Magic answer:

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What @crookedpathfinder is saying is making money that never goes into an atm. It doesn’t need to be withdrawn and won’t be on any sort of history on your bank account. No deposit or withdrawals or anything. Simply working maybe odd jobs for people, they pay in cash, and then you hide it away somewhere safe. You can save that up and when you have enough most places will accept money orders even which also won’t go through your bank.

You work with King Paimon right? I suggest you ask him about money advice.
You have to first detach yourself from your parents and understand and embody the fact that you have to get out of the hole they’ve dug on your own, any emotional attachment can interfere with the magick that you do for situations like this. I speak from experience. Because if you do something for yourself with people who are used to depending on you in a toxic way they will resist and challenge you. You have to stand your ground. I suggest you do shadow work and also ask your ancestors for help to build the strength to do so.

The next thing I recommend is asking Lord Belial to help, to remove the obstacles on your way to get independent. Void of harm, of course. How this manifested for me was I had to face my own family’s shadows, it was all at once so yeah it was difficult but today I am at a much better place. It is important that you stand your ground and are determined, will power will play a heavy role here. Your family probably has their own issues and trauma with money which they might project onto you. For example, them stopping you from moving out because they think you won’t be able to pay the bills on your own. Stuff like that. I suggest you already have. a plan of action in mind in how you’ll manage things mundanely and magickally after your move out if possible, so that you have one less thing to worry about.

As already mentioned, try to find a way to earn cash. And hide it. Save it with you. Idk about where you live but cash comes in pretty handy where I am.

Another thing I suggest is talking to your family’s higher self. This is something Lady Eva had suggested to me. Although I didn’t evoke back then, what I did instead was scan their connection to their higher self, and clean the cords of that connection. Thing of the connection as a pipe with rocks placed on them, you have to remove the rocks. This process might also be emotionally difficult, because if you’re family is used to projecting onto you, they will project whatever comes up onto you as well.

There is also E.A’s shameless manipulation method Which he had shared on YouTube.

King Paimon of course, apart from money matters can also help you move out.

Work from the inside out(as within, so without) what I mean is, prepare yourself with shadow work, do the magick, and set the ball rolling. As things unfold face them head on and you’ll get where you want.

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I know your situation is different than mine, and it feels a little weird linking my own post, but I feel like you might get some ideas from this:

No I can’t with this job I’m trying to be a 911 dispatcher so I can leave

How do I do this🤔

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Hey friend, I’m sorry to hear this. I’ll try and give you my point of view.
First two demons that come to mind (if you do not want to go straight up baneful) are:

Andromalius
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and my man Raum

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My idea here is to play the manipulation card yourself: let them feel guilty of what they took from you, and let them give it back to you.
Both Andromalius and Raum should help you recover what has been altready stolen, and maybe put you in a better spot, where blackmailing would make them feel bad.

I’m proposing these two here because I had the chance to work/talk with them, and it seems to me that they are more than suitable for this job!

Let me know if I can help you further

EDIT: please let me know if I’m not allowed to post these kind of screenshots. If that’s the case, I’ll remove them immediately

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Evoke or scan

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