I would suggest you to warm the Way of the candle to around 160 Degree celsius, take a metal can and put the graveyard dirt around the wick, which you can stabalize by a little cross on the top.
mix the graveyard dirt with hair / Nails or Wardrobe pieces of your partner to strengthen the connection.
You should incorporate rose leafs or Chockolade pieces to sweeten the energy and not just make a fully blown curse, since you want a positive outcome after all.
In fact i feel graveyard dirt to be to potent for what you aim at, but that’s your decission to make.
Rose Stings would be enough to bring his awareness to your needs in my point of view.
After molding the candle, let it cool down for at least 24 hours, just to bind the compounts together completely.
Notice that you don’t want to burn the candle completely in one go, after you finished it.
Rather light it weekly or monthly for up to one hour each time.
That way you can increase the effect each time you use it.
That all depends on intent and the symbolic representation. If the intent is to contact a dead loved one then sure but if the intent is to use it for its innate magical attributes then it’s a different kind of magick being performed than just basic necromancy it’s more along the lines of a charm.
You tell us, after a year I guess you must have done it already. So, was it a success? Did you made your target being even more obsessed with you as you wished a year ago, or not? I don’t need to provide any “historic evidence” (!!), its magick, I’d rather hear the results from you.
By historic evidence, I mean the history of hoodoo and the very many uses of GD within it.
I haven’t used this spell, since I’m married. But I did use a Russian love spell when my future husband and I were about to split up for good. Worked like a charm. I can post a rough translation if anyone wants it.
I didn’t use it. But a late friend of mine was a really hardcore hoodoo practitioner. He showed me his recipe. Even then, he never actually used it. I believe Catherine Yronwode’s book “hoodoo herb and root magick” describes a recipe for it as well. But it’s been about 6 years since I looked through that book, so I could be wrong.
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