There’s this “friend” that my partner has a hard time cutting off. He doesn’t respect anyone’s boundaries (or my partner’s). For example, he’ll call him at 3 am out of the blue and blow up his phone. He’s super co-dependent and only seems to be using my partner to show off his car on his instagram stories as if it’s his and not my partner’s.
Another long-term female friend, that from what i can see has actually always been platonic on his side. However, she’s the type of girl that wants to get validation and attention from everyone, overly fake affectionate with everyone and i felt like she’s gonna cause problems. Well, she’d entirely forgotten about him for months. Suddenly, she finds out i am dating him and sees what i look like. NOW all of a sudden she is all over him, calling him 24/7 and saying how dare he ignore her and put her on mute for me, referring to me as not a whore but a similar term in my language to refer to a woman you have sex with/disrespectful way of saying girlfriend.
It doesn’t seem like it’s anything coming from his end and i am very certain of that, but she’s someone he’s relied on in the past for emotional support dealing with his past relationships and etc. so he has a hard time cutting off right away. However, it seems like she is going insane he is setting normal boundaries with her and trying to influence him negatively against me which is hilarious. How do i banish that bitch and cause discord between them? I think he’s started to realize it for himself. She seems to be doing all this to piss me off but i know i have the upper hand so i won’t let her get her way or make me argue with him over this lol.