Hi all. Sorry for the kind of long post, but I wanted to explain the situation to get the best advice for my situation.
I don’t want a Spell or Ritual handed on a silver platter, but rather resources or information to make my own or my own research. I feel since the situation is kind of unique, so should the spell
As many people in this forum, this is about an ex. We have been no contact for 10 months, but suddenly I’ve been dreaming of him lately (probably mercury retrograde) breaking the no contact. We basically ghosted each other, blocked each other and didn’t really get closure but he was very shitty to me (had a long term partner while he was proposing to me, an ab0rtion was involved, etc).
I want to craft a spell that’ll make him see all the bad he did, to hurt like I did back then. To be as obsessed as I was back then and to come back crawling to me begging for forgiveness (I don’t intend to go back with him but rather have him in the palm of my hand)
That’s where the question comes in; what kind of spell(s) to do? I know I should layer some kind of regret, obsession, communication and dominance spell, but can I just make a big, proper ritual and combine all 4?
My intuition and little experience tells me I should use some elements like mirrors (to mirror how I felt and how obsessed I used to be) and blood (menstrual, more likely)
Any tips, sources of information and advice are very welcome.