Domination, regret or obession spell? Help!

Hi all. Sorry for the kind of long post, but I wanted to explain the situation to get the best advice for my situation.

I don’t want a Spell or Ritual handed on a silver platter, but rather resources or information to make my own or my own research. I feel since the situation is kind of unique, so should the spell

As many people in this forum, this is about an ex. We have been no contact for 10 months, but suddenly I’ve been dreaming of him lately (probably mercury retrograde) breaking the no contact. We basically ghosted each other, blocked each other and didn’t really get closure but he was very shitty to me (had a long term partner while he was proposing to me, an ab0rtion was involved, etc).

I want to craft a spell that’ll make him see all the bad he did, to hurt like I did back then. To be as obsessed as I was back then and to come back crawling to me begging for forgiveness (I don’t intend to go back with him but rather have him in the palm of my hand)

That’s where the question comes in; what kind of spell(s) to do? I know I should layer some kind of regret, obsession, communication and dominance spell, but can I just make a big, proper ritual and combine all 4?

My intuition and little experience tells me I should use some elements like mirrors (to mirror how I felt and how obsessed I used to be) and blood (menstrual, more likely)

Any tips, sources of information and advice are very welcome.

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Mercury retrogrades are an optical illusion, and that’s unlikely to have any real effect, and would be temporary and psychological.

Try Dantalion for persuading him to see your side.

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If he has blocked you on everything, how will you know the results of your magick? Do you have friends in common? Are you good at remote viewing?

If you’re open to using entities, demons are known for getting shit done.

In Winterfield’s Demons of Magick, listed powers are carefully worded and might convey more than what is specifically written. For example, on page 31, “forgetting a specific event” is referred to, but not the demon. I had to look on the website Q&A to discover it was Bael. This is not specifically listed in his powers, but can be inferred if one “reads between the lines.”

Just a quick scan of the demons, and I see a few that appear to have obvious use:

  • Bael: To make a thing or situation appear as something other than it is.
  • Leraje: To weaken an enemy … by inflicting pain.
  • Vine: To make a vicious former lover feel love for you. This is not for reconciliation, but to cause weakness and confusion during a breakup or divorce.
  • Aim: To cause a named individual to suffer anguish and arguments at home. To make a named individual prone to accidents and injury. To give you strength to cause disruption for your own benefit.
  • Glasya Labolas: To make a named individual suffer loneliness, being shunned by friends and strangers.
  • Raum: To cause a named individual to suffer great loss.
  • Furcas: To make a person feel guilty for their wickedness.
  • Orias: To enable you to plan, schedule, or otherwise time your schemes so that they are enacted at the most appropriate time.
  • Haures: To bring justice to an enemy in the form of emotional distress and anguish.

There was a great instructional post for setting up a leader for layered workings, but I can’t find it now. You would choose either a high ranking demon or someone with organizational skills, like Orias, to coordinate the event for maximum effectiveness, by the standard that you define.

So it would look something like, “Orias, I want [name] to feel pain similar to the pain that he caused me, for the purpose of him seeing and acknowledging the wrong that he did to me. I request that you lead [demon1], [demon2], and [demon3] in this. I will tell [demon1] that I want him to [do stuff], and [demon2] to [do stuff] …(etc).”

Then to [demon1], “[Demon1], following the orchestration of Orias, I request that you turn [ex’s] friends against him, such that he has no support when he struggles with the personal loss that [Demon3] causes.”

You might be tempted to enlist a dozen entities to hit like a Peterbuilt, but beware of this being an expression of desperation and a lack of faith in your magick. I suggest limiting yourself to two or three angles of attack, and giving your helpers maximum freedom to accomplish your desires with the situations that are available. Have confidence in them.

Don’t be long-winded. Be as direct and simple as you can be. Winterfield does a great job in walking you through this.

Read the ritual directions carefully, noting and doing every detail. He is very specific and wastes no words. A missing detail has often led to a failed work.

Please let us know what you did and what happened, so we can learn with you.

KralHor

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I had read that book long ago and almost forgot about it, so thank you for bringing it up and reminding me. I think for certain this option would work best, so I’ll make an update after I make the ritual

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In your situation i give a 99% odds that you will tie yourself more and not him. Im not saying that you are tied or can be tied with him. It will be with the situation itself, the pain, the suffer, the negativity… I feel that if you move it and even worst, you use that energies to make a spell, you will reforce and feed that energies and they will affect you for sure, even with protection counter-spells it will be very hard to dont let at least a hole for when energie can go against you.

Make a spell about cleaning that from your life or do a harm spell, but dont use and reforce a weakness.