One thing about Lilith, u can’t summon her. That’s like a big mistake. She comes when she wants to. In my case, I know I have 11 demons if not 12 under me. From what I’ve learned so far, I direct them on where to go. The 1st time I soul travelled with Lilith to hell b4 I became 1 with her, looked like there was a list of where each one of those demons needed to go. That being said, u might mot always be with ur spiritual lover.