What game are we playing? I wasn’t aware people’s lives and spirituality were a game.
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Like many true ones I have come across they don’t make it 100% public they keep a lot to themselves.
If anyone is wanting to and trying to start a argument please I beg you just put thread on mute/ignore. We are trying to help many new understand it’s not all sunshine and roses.
Ok I’ll stop now.
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So far I have seen people with legit spirit spouses never got mad about this thread 
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Spirit Spouses are…complex to say the least. Like really complex. It’s not all “happily ever after”.
Depending on the partner, sometimes you can end up getting hurt in the physical through emotional pain(IE in my case, emotional pain because I kept getting bullied for my beliefs).
Parasitic thoughts can also get attached to you dependent on the spouse as there are plenty of people who have different beliefs about spiritual spouse you have
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Let’s build on Anima and Animus because @thejimy brought it up and no one answered. Like the site I just posted this would indeed make the spirit spouse an actual part of your soul. Your feminine/masculine opposite. So, let’s say that a person really has made contact with their inner spirit spouse. However, they believe him/her to be a parasite. Then they go to get said parasite exorcised. What then? They basically cut their soul in half, which can cause serious side effects, including serious illness and death. The most healthy thing to do, would be to confront this inner anima/animus aka shadow self, and do shadow work. You have to look at all sides of this spectrum. No it’s not sugar and gumdrops. Hell, it could be spiders and shit storms. Anyone that has done shadow work knows this, but it’s not all bad either. At the end, this is all psychological and what builds us as individuals.
Btw I don’t completely credit myself for learning this. Someone else taught me and it took hours of research and studying.
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When you read this thread carefully, you will notice that nobody tried to denounce spirit spouses in general.
It seems you’re concerned about people being dragged into thinking their spirit spouse is a parasite and then hurting themselves because of it, am I right?
When I see someone who talks about their spirit spouse and I have reasonable doubts about it, I don’t go like “Go get an exorcism.”
I’d advice them to take a step back, banish all unwanted entities, and start working with the entity they seek in a non-sexual and professional and careful way first.
I don’t want them to split their soul in half, I want them to get experience in what the real entity feels like, so that they can distinguish between them and thoughtforms/parasites.
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But I didn’t say anyone was denouncing it. I was just offering more resources and different perspectives for new people because again that is the point.
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I denounce them
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Lol this thread is mind blowing! Great points!
Nope! Not all spirit spouses are parts of the soul! and idk about shadow self being a spouse! Your shadow self is you!
Parasites can be banished with regular cleansing! And that wouldn’t banish a part of you!
Also an exorcism would just shift your perspective not cut your soul!
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Unless they have developed senses and can perform some kind of soul or astral travel they could still be contacting parasite after parasite , they most often take whatever form and demeanor you have on your subconscious of what you think the legit entity is like ,
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That’s why I posted the resource because it explains it better. The spouse is you as well. Your animus/anima.
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I dont think your spouse would be part of you unless you merge with it to be honest.
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When you have a succubi for so long they merge into your aura to an extent , you can start to take on some of their personality traits ,
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That’s why I said I want them to take a step back and work carefully, gain experience.
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At least you’re honest and straightforward. 
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This thread is getting derailed. This whole anima/ animus thing, while interesting, is not the point.
@ngcreativity you tried to cause drama, which didn’t succeed. Now you’re throwing in stuff that is not helpful, and you know it. Why you felt attacked (although nobody was calling you out) and reacted in the way that you did is very …interesting. You seem to have either completely missed the point, or are trying to derail the thread for reasons of your own.
The point is:
People making threads (lots of them lately) about pink fluffy lovey dovey romantic ”relationships“ with spirits that
a) make these people sound like clueless, immature larpers
b) could seriously mislead newbies because of the extremely one-sided, unrealistic picture they paint, and also due to the fact that they simply do not - ever - express any kinds of warnings that you could either attract unwanted entities or end up talking to your own head all day
c) make serious spirit relationships of any kind seem like a total cakewalk and basically make the whole occult community look like a joke.
If you are unwilling or incapable of grasping the very clearly formulated intent and objective of this thread, then maybe you should just move on.
As someone who is married to a spirit, I can only wholeheartedly wish everyone who is in a spiritual relationship all the best. It is most beautiful in more ways than I could describe. But it has nothing to do with what these threads are portraying.
Edit to add: Nobody here, I believe, thinks that your relationship isn’t legit, or is trying to start a “witch hunt”. This says more about the mindset of those who feel attacked than that of the OP or me, or others. I don’t feel the need to put anyone down, I don’t care who you’re with, I have never tried to discredit anyone, but as someone with personal experience and as a regular, I and many others here, as is obvious, see themselves in a position to warn newbies against possible dangers, as well as call out blatant bullshit. There is no thought or experience- police here, and nobody here aims at putting down the newbies. Any and all constructive criticism is more than welcome afaic. Getting passive-aggressive, however, is not.
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See, its beauty is at where you get bleed and cry for it.Its not even supposed to be a spirit but I wont go there further.
I have seen the legit ones always talked about how hard it is for them even if they love them and wont change it.
Other hand, you have this larper talking about how she got a spirit cock up her ass or how this dude got laid with 10 woman at same week.
It also got my attention that some people are only mad about sex part I talked about, while not caring about the others.
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I think the problem with a lot of people talking about romantic or sexual relationships with a spirit, is the same problem a lot of people have with magick at large. They are taking something grander than the human, and interpreting the symbols and shorthands they use to comprehend the communication as immutable fact.
I think the point of “standing too close to the elephant” is a good one. People need to take a step back and detach a little.
I mean no hate by this
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Yup , if someone wants to try to do that by all means they can , I think it’s a sure path to horrible mental side effects though
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Constructively, it was for this reason I personally (in member-mode, not mod-mode) put the following 2 threads at the TOP of the “Unofficial Member Tutorials” topic a while back:
The animus/anima stuff really does belong in its own topic, and not on here, where it could be discussed more fully without derailment.
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