I would suggeat focusing on yourself rather than him. The more you obsess over him the more you actually get in the way of the magick you have done. If you have been thinking about the situation and the work you have done on it so far then you actually end up getting in the way of the spirits you petition because your conscious mind is clinging to it and all the energy you put towards ritual, which in this case would go to the spirits so they do what they do is just sitting there in energetic limbo untill you can detach from it.
This is one of the quarky paradoxes of magick. The faster you can TRULY detach from the goal the faster results begin to surface. this does not mean distracting yourself and checking on it in a few hours, days or a few weeks. It means knowing with CERTAINTY that you have grasped the threads of fate and rewoven them and you are now just waiting for reality to catch up.
Rituals like this can take weeks or months to manifest becuase of the operators conscious attachment to the goal being so strong. This is a large part of the difficulties in this kind of magick.