You should accidentally kill him. I’m only kidding.
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Thought about it once!
But I will still have to go through finding another men after investing all these year on such an a**** lol
I will better keep him to clean my toilet and kitchen, and moreover, a family making machine only - until he changes!!!
This actually sounds kind of sexy. I like you.
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You do like a challenge don’t you. Not one thing you have said has led me to believe this is a good person for you. I think you already know this otherwise you wouldn’t be able to point out all the faults, and I’m sure you only scratched the surface here. This person from what I can tell offers nothing in terms of growth for you. If I were you, and I’m not, but if I were I would focus on myself first. This person does not complete you.
ps: I try to word things diplomatically, but if it seems harsh its because I care about you and I have personally seen friends walk a similar path to their downfall.
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My skin is not that thin! And I made my choice… I know he does not complete me. But honestly speaking, I do NOT need a man to complete me. I am in a good shape already and I don’t care if he is dependent on me.
But I really appreciate your concern. 
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So you want to turn an asshole into a femdom sex slave, and you call this love.
That guy would make a shit submissive.
Join fetlife and learn how to femdom properly, pls.
Then pick a worthy sub. One that actually wants to be a sub.
You’ll be a lot happier.
But hey, everybody knows best, right? Sure, no problem. I don’t argue online, so do what you wanna and tell us how it’s working out for you.
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Go home and be a sweet advising MAMA/WIFEY (whichever suits you!!!) to a pet like a dog or cat!!!
I’m sure you’ll make a good one with your amazing advising skills 
AND FYI - I AM SURE NO ONE EVER HAD ANY PERVERTED TASTE TO ARGUE WITH YOU!!!
See @jaysalamone? This is why i say NO when people ask me to do love magick for them. I know you relate - entitled people are a f’in headache to put on your altar
Oops… I pity for those who ever even thought of asking you!!! Lolzz
AND NO ONE ASKED YOU FOR LOVE SPELL. DID YOU READ PROPERLY??? Or do you need a spell on your eyes for that??? Lolllll
Is that your primary source of income???!!!
How about joining some online IT courses to find a second job??!!
Just a friendly advise
Unfortunately when you ask on a public forum you’re going to get all sorts of opinions from a wide variety of people. I would just take the advice that you feel resonates with you the most. Of course read everyones opinions, but don’t let stuff get to you girlfriend. I believe you will do the right thing for you 
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Hi @Bell7777,
I hope that my post will benefit you and hopefully provide little clarity for your situation. I really feel for you and would like my thoughts to come across as not judgmental, because you came her for help. While only you know whats right for you, here’s some food for thought.
Sounds like your mind is made up I would say.
In my opinion of cursing, strong emotions are involved. So I’d say you loved him to be able to curse him.
I would worry brining someone cursed, back into your life, how will that effect you, if at all?
I’d say you have a decision to make make because I don’t think having both will work.
Yes, the pact will work, but again how will it affect you?
Do you know and trust this person or is it someone selling spells online, I would be careful.
None of these are good traits to have in your life. I would suggest if this is someone you really love, start the healing process for him first. Before you just invite all the problems he comes with back into your life.
Can you clarify a little on that as well or were you just referring to the fact that he has been rude to them? Or is it something more cultural?
@Bell7777 please reacquaint yourself with our forum rules:
Responding with hostility and abuse is not permitted, @emperor was only remarking upon whether soneone you yourself describe as an asshole is likely to become the lover you want.
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If you ask others how to kill someone everyone will answer properly but when asked how to get someone back all unwanted advises start, and everyone becomes a psychologist telling you what’s good for u 
I would say break the situation in pieces and work on each with magic ! Good luck!
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I think for any magick and I mean ANY to work, you need to be 100% committed to the task at hand. There can be no room for doubt and no room for error. There are so many complex levels in each person situations, that if someone reaches out, the least we can do is cause them to think. There can only be two outcome, a yes or a no. Either way our fellow members are either brought to change their mind because they realize that their commitment is wishy washy or they they find the push they needed to complete the task at hand.
I like people to make sure their 100% committed in whatever they choose with-holding my personal judgements since we all walk our own paths. I personally have not found your first statement to be the case here, at lease while I have been online anyway. I really like your second statement though, and agree.
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Lol I’m a newbie here and I’ve already seen “but you don’t really want to kill him” threads. I think the problem is that those get even more heated and deletions happen sooner
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How you phrase a question is equally as important as the question you ask. You can tell by the title and the post that somethings not right, because they’re out of sync. I mean that as a blanket statement not directed to any 1 post.
If people are not clear on their question, and not clear in their reasoning, then they will fail in my opinion. The advice will not be clear for the task at hand if the task at hand is unclear to begin with.
Anyway, Newbie here too and nice to meet you
@Bell7777 , you can try your curse on me, but if you are too weak, it won’t work. If my egregores think you can’t deal with my brattiness, they will negate the curse so they don’t waste their time.