Hello, I will summarize this as quickly as possible. I’ve been seeing a man about 30 years older than me for the last 3 years. We met through a sugar baby website but ended up falling in love and I even work part time for his company.
He was the first person I ever did magick on (my first spell EVER was done on him). I used the love to turn attraction into love from Damon Brand’s Magickal Seduction. Anyway, the spell worked remarkably well. He even admitted (back when I first did the spell) that he never even fell so strongly in love with his wife. We fell in a deep love and I’m his longest relationship since his divorce. It was very clear it wasn’t just the spell, we truly love each other. The spell works with angels anyway, and opens them to loving you, so it doesn’t work if there’s nothing for the spell to work with.
Anyway… there’s a few problems.
Because of our age difference we can’t really be together…I want to get married and have kids, he already has kids and has been married, he just wants to be a womanizer his whole life.
He is a true womanizer. Has told me he loves variety and loves being with different woman. Also, this man is EXTREMELY unemotional, cold, and calculating by nature. He is very strong willed. He’s a good-looking multimillionaire as well…
Finally, we have been drifting apart the past 4 months. I’ve been online dating to find a husband and haven’t done many spells on him so our passion has faded. The problem is this is affecting me financially and emotionally (he brings a lot of value to my life and not seeing him hurts me). He only sees me about once every 2 weeks. I want to continue our casual relationship but not have the love overwhelm me.
So I decided to repeat the love spell. The spell warns that be careful when you seduce because it can affect you just as powerfully. The problem is, because he’s so unemotional, this spell works but it always hits me 50 times harder it seems. I’m a woman and more emotional, I don’t like variety the way he does. The spell works with angels and I know angels work mostly by influencing you to attract the situation. I’m a 3rd day into this spell and already all my feelings are back times 100. I’m thinking about him constantly, wanting to be with him, longing for him really badly, etc. I guess this is good because it means the spell is starting to work on him too most likely, however emotionally this is hard to deal with right now.
This brings me to my next and most important question…
For this man I have mostly used angel and saints for our love spells. I know that demons work more in a way to influence other people rather than you. Because falling in love too hard with him hinders me emotionally, but I love being with him and want to reap the benefits, should I use demon workings on him? I’m not sure if it would affect him differently than the angels? I’ve used demons on him 3 or 4 times, the results were minimal but were not directly related to love. Also I was nervous when I did them.
Also keep in mind, I truly love being with him. Yes I could easily find another sugar daddy who actually pays me more than him, but I don’t want to lose him. He brings me so much happiness. I just can’t have this love overwhelm me anymore because it’s emotionally painful and I do need to see others.
Any feedback/advice is appreciated. Also any advice on how to get him to see me more frequently, favor me, be more financially generous with me, and knock out the competition (other women) is much appreciated.