On the fullmoon im going to do a ritual for the behalf of my friend( she is not in the occult) because she wants me to help her with her bf. He is quite toxic, jealous for no reason, arrogant, selfish and bring always issues out of nowhere.
So which spirit would you suggest to calm him down, and be more nice to her, more caring and listen to her needs?
We need something strong here.
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Asmoday. To help you with a binding.
But there needs to be done secret desire in him that allows him to trust you to this degree. It doesn’t really sound like there’s a lot to trust in this, and he may sense that and self-protect against the magick. Arrogance is already often a self protection tactic. So he has a double dose of protections built-in.
I’ve realized in the last months this is the same issue with narcissusts being hard to do magick on. Narcissism is also stemming from a deep self protection mindset. If he’s a narc, the only way to win is not to play.
The risk is, if he’s highly narcissistic, Is that it’s kind of infectious. You (general you) take on more narc traits yourself, and get trapped in the shared fantasy where you’re playing his game fighting for power and control. But any attention feeds into this parasitic thing you have created together. Magickally I think it’s ideal to kill the parasite, get out of the fantasy, and stop playing.
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Shalehbiron sounds perfect for that, and this is is seal
His abilities are as follow:
Might be what is needed to bring that person individual under your command + in combination with his other abilities, granting charms and charisma go hand in hand to control someone’s mind. It sounds to me that’s what you’re looking to do
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Open the seal, state your intent, present your offerings could be blood, or his incenses: Frankincense resin, Bay Laurel Leaves, Turmeric, Saffron, Rosemary and Olive leaves Or Candles: red, yellow in association with his element Fire and Planet Sun
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He doesn’t need a curse. He needs a blessing. What you see in him lives in you. Let go of the negative energy and bless him for purity. Trust, humility and peace
I m going to hit it with him yes!! Thank you my fav spirit library 
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Indeed!!
Do you mean to kill this side of his character? Hiw can i do it magcikally?
The parasite is the shared fantasy that has you living a lie. Kill that by getting out of that mindset, and walking away.
The ONLY way to win is not to play.
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Ι have adviced my friend to leave him… with no success… 
yeah this kind of “parasite” locks you in and many don’t leave. Basically whatever comfort is keeping your friend there is overriding self preservation. This channel has helpful advice on how to leave an extreme narc that has you hooked, and it’s mostly a “test of your will”.
At some point it’s their life and they have to make their own decisions. And sometimes trying to force healing on someone can make things worse.
Having said that, you also have free will and it’s up to you if you want to try, imo - my usual approach to get rid of humans I don’t want around is actually to death curse them. Use a death curse but with a softer intention that they are removed form our life “as if” they might as well be dead. This opens up more paths to manifestation including good things for them, even like job opportunities cross country that take them away. Anything to remove them so you never have to see or hear of them again.
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Few years ago, I had found myself in similar situation. No romance involved, just business partnership. The thing is, I wanted to leave and pursue other venture, it was just very difficult since the other person involved was a super certified narc and I’m talking about really stalk-ish, quite creepy. After all my efforts had failed, I turned to the one and only who genuinely could help - Belial
Within days of my work with him, me and the other person had a really big argument, I mean a really big blow up, and not long after, that partnership had simply dwindled and disappear as tho It never existed to begin with, and I haven’t spoken nor seen that individual till this day
Have you considered Belial? I mean he can really put an end to that relationship if asked by setting very strong boundaries between the two
Abadon is also there, let’s not forget. If the intention is to wipe out everything, all ties, bonds that are keeping them together, he can be of great aid
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What book is this from?
I’ve got an almost identical experience. Belial and Azazel helped me with it.
If my friend change her mind and want to leave from thus relationship, Belial would be my first choice for sure… but she wants to do a commanding spell on her bf so i will help her with that for now 
How’d it go?