Curse ideas for backstabbing a lover

Black Magick & The Left Hand Path
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Okay, so let’s put this first. I’m usually an ethical person, but not when it comes to my situation.

I don’t believe in rule of three or karma biting me.

I don’t just want to walk away and live my best life.

My situation in a nutshell and what I want to accomplish.

Mer this guy 9 years ago. Instant attraction. Instant relationship. A month into it, I was seeing red flags and found another woman. Was devastated. Called upon Pomba Gira and asked her to give him to me. Made her my Matron spirit permanently .

He stayed but twisted and so much misfortune and cheating over the years. Bound by blood and tears and crossroads magic and my own abusive past that created a trauma bond between us.

Instead of leaving I decided to stay. Contacted the other woman. We both confronted him. Ended up in a polyamory for a few months. That fell apart because she didn’t trust me and he was telling me he only wanted me. Played both of us. Broke up for two months and I met another guy that I really liked but didn’t get emotional attached just fwb for a month and then stayed platonic friends for years to present.

Me and her agreed to see him both.

We stayed like that for several years. Five years in, found him on dating site. Playing us both again. Confronted him. He blocked me across all boards

I moved on. He popped back up, told me he wanted another chance. Was solo. I gave that chance. Four years now. Last few months he’s been super sweet and super deep then out of nowhere gets mega jealous of the guy that’s just a friend and is telling me that he doesn’t ever want me to be driven back to him because I’m lonely… :roll_eyes:

Today I find out he’s been lying all over again. Pictures of a yearly event that he’s been to three years in a row and each year public domain photos of him with two women I know he’s friends with .

I’m so deeply soul tied to this man I cannot cut ties even with spells and petitioning my Matron. There’s more at play here and I have seen in dreams and messages that’s somehow our situation is meant to teach him some sort of karmic lesson. But what about me? I know I need to go but I literally cannot.

So.. what I want to figure out is how can I curse a man that I still am soul tied to despite all the bs he’s done to me and now I hate him too. I want him to remain with me until he’s nothing but a shell of himself and I want to secretly be the one who’s cursing him and causing his pain and misery and watching as he struggles, while he cries to me about his misery, but I want him to be blinded that it’s me doing it.

Yeah I want to be the evil bastard this time around. I feel I have good cause for it.

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Please try to use the search, there’s a ton of curse threads but from people who aren’t around to post again

I collected the best ones in the baneful collection, take a look!

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I don’t really subscribe to the rule of three etc as well and karma is a whole lot more complex and not really the force of cosmic justice as many people seem to think it is. In my opinion sometimes a good curse can be very cathartic, maybe even healing. It is an effective way to take your power back. Kinda like kicking a bully in the crotch can be in some cases.

I do like to have my malefica include an opportunity for growth for my target. Wether or not they take that opportunity is not my responsibility and it is uncomfortable, even painful nevertheless. It is not necessary, but it’s my personal attempt to hopefully diminish the amount of assholes (m/f) in the world a little bit.

For instance, if you have a connection to/ relationship with Lucifer. I’ve had some succes using Lucifer’s Light to have lies be illuminated and found out. Pair that with something to sow discord in your targets social and/ or work circle and their life will be in sweet, uncomfortable chaos for a while. When the spells take effect you can leave it at that or use their weakened state to work on them some more.

Attachments to people usually take some serious psychological work next to any spellwork for me. Since you’ve tried a bunch already, I’m not sure if this will work, but maybe worth a try. One of my favorites is establishing an energetic link to my target while staring into a black mirror. Either only mentally or paired with some personal item. When you feel your are on a similar vibration and see your target’s reflection and use a personal item. Destroy it and try to work up some joyous glee while doing that. If your link is established only mentally you can skip this. Then notice the chord that links you to your target through the black mirror. Then accompanied with some sort of vocal vibration violently slash that chord with your ritual dagger (be careful not to hurt yourself by accident). The verbal vibrating can be in the form of a spell, but a simple and well meant “FUCK OFF AND STAY GONE” can also be effective. If you are willing to try something a little more advanced and slightly more dangerous. Death spells with a “dead to me” intention instead of an actuall hope for death might also (temporarily) prove effective to get exclude someone from your life. Usually the more common death spells don’t actually cause death, but however small, the chance is always there that it will actually speed up someone’s exclusion from the census. So be aware of that.

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I think that they push karma so much just so that people don’t get into magick, like the fact that “they obscured the methods with dogma and fairytale” as E.A put it regarding magick and working with “demons”.

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Ghehehe, I don’t think anyone is pushing karma at all. Certainly.not for the reason to keep people from practicing magick. I just think it’s a popular.concept with a lot of misconception around it and a lot of false hope that there is such a thing as cosmic justice.

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maybe, but I meant more from a religious aspect that people push karma. I don’t know which religions exactly but it’s something I was taught as a child even coming from a non particularly religious household lol