I does sound like a combination of lusting for results, and not folloing his instructions to give her the space. If you are constantly chasing her you don’t give her a chance to do anything but push you away, she has no chance to miss you and want to pull.
I’m not sure you understand her, and you need to do that in a hurry… It’s worth looking up relationship psychology on youtube to understand the hidden aspects of how people think better. Try daemons like Buer to get insight on the underlying emotions and understand her better.
I posted a list of Daemons that can be worked with for specific results and help you understand the situation here - you can’t make good decisions on how to act if you don’t know what’s going on: Who is the best wealth demon to get a specific job and who is the best love demon to make my target love me forever?