That implies this might not be the right time for you to go in this direction. When the universe makes easy things weirdly hard for you, it’s sometimes a sign that you shouldn’t be doing it.
It’s part of the learning process. I guess it’s something the consultant must experience. There are better, more general options, “I want to have a lot of sex” and options will probably come.
Perform a ritual asking for glamour/attraction or you can even sweeten yourself using candles or jars.
A sweetening for the objective and maybe use some “come to me, girl” oil.
Perform a ritual to get rid of that obsession if you feel that it is causing you many problems, the obsession later causes problems.
Remember that if there is a lot of desperation in achieving the objective, it will probably take time or it will be blocked by yourself.
“Ass that should be yours, it will come to nail itself”
I think the OP might have possibly meant mercurial, rather than mercantile. As in she flits from place to place, going where the wind takes her, constantly changing her mind, that kind of thing.