Can We Get Multiple Wives? (Polygamy)

I don’t. I’m just asking if spirits can help to do this bad for people because if they can do so then will that’s nasty. It’s just my curiosity to search for possibilities.

uh what? some women are into polygamy what are you talking about lol.

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I don’t see how it would not be possible. There are of course many other variables that are at play, but i can see it happening. But getting married legally to multiple partners and getting away with it can be difficult depending on what part of the world you are living in.

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If you can do it without magic (and people do) then you can do it with magic. Doesn’t seem that complicated looking at it through that lens

Whether it’s harmonious or stressful is another matter entirely. Whether you are naturally predisposed to polyamory will play into it as well; attracting like-minded people or finding a community would be easier than, say, living as someone who is jealous and possessive of their partners’ affections but also greedy and desiring a harem of partners who are all monogamous and devoted to you faithfully but also completely okay with being one of many and never having the slightest emotional issue with it. Hypothetically speaking.

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Yes it is possible for men to have multiple wives and in some cultures it’s something ordinary.

What about women? can she have multiple partners? naturally that is very difficult to impossible.
Mentally and physically unhealthy.

Respectfully disagree. It may not be the way I live my life as a woman but I don’t see how it’s any different. If anything I think it would be easier for a woman to have multiple partners. Whether it’s all out in the open and consensual between all parties is another matter entirely. But if that is your view then I doubt anyone else is going to change your mind.

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Actually, the practice has existed all the way up to just before sumeria reached its height (there was actually a law banning it, suggesting that it existed prior to). It is less common than polygamy but does have some advantages in terms of limited population growth, keeping family units together, and maximizing resources when they are scarce. If i recall, it is still a practice in Tibet.

As for the individual, well that is up to them and many characteristics that would take ages to go over in a single reply. But yes, women can have multiple partners and function well if that is the route they decide.

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Some women wants polyamory, which is a network of lovers of all involved and where both women and men are allowed other lovers. Polygamy is when only men is allowed several wives. What those women in polyamore relationships do not want is to be locked down in a marriage where a man get all the benefits of going poly and she gets all the burdens. Now if you take a look at polygamy the societies that still allows this is always under the poverty lines. You can actually map it out geographically.

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This is the most discriminating thing I have read all week. And of course it is from a man that is facinating by having more than one women. This is close to abuse.

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Women ,or anyone who’s penetrated (including anal sex) are more at risk of STDs, urinary tract infections, unwanted pregnancies and abortions, so not really. Men with vaginas are equally at risk, so are men being penetrated anally (and obviously agender and intersex persons again, all the above). It’s just nature. :smiley:

Someone injects a lot of stuff in your body, it’s more risky.

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If you connect to the right spirits, I guess why not?

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I think that some women are interested into relationships with more than one partner as well. They might be not as vocal about it for different reasons (in order to keep a certain posture towards cultural or social expectations adressed at them) but it doesn’t keep them away from going for it. I think it is mentally and physically straining for both, at least in my book. I don’t see a reason to handle more than one person who is not able to clean up after himself or who is constantly asking me where X/Y is, etc. Its stressful enough with one person, really :slight_smile:

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Agreed.

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That kind of depends on the partnerships at hand. I think that a partnership doesn’t always have to include daily sexual orgies. We want different things from different people. And maybe these cravings for different things can be expressed with a broader selection of partners. Maybe one partner is a better talker. Maybe another is really good with giving non-sexual physical affection. Another one might be the best for robbing a bank at gunpoint. Partnership is not a porn replacement, after all. Of course one could say “but thats what friends are for” but if someone is interested into a marriage like connection: no, thats not what friends are for. Its really complex because there is a huge pattern of different needs for each person.

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That’s the physical side, the emotional side is also critical because women are usually more emotional and more sensitive than men, right?

Imagine yourself as a spouse to 3 men, and you had problems with them. The first one divorced with you and broke your heart, second one is demanding so much from you, and the third one is cheating.
Not to forget children, carrying 10 babies (a maid/babysitter can help).
All of that is stressful and too much to handle for one woman.

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You don’t need three men for that, trust me. One is perfectly fine.

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I think men like to assume women are fragile creatures when a woman can make a man break down if she wanted. The emotional spectrum of a man and a woman will always very, sure some generalization exists, that can’t be avoided but some men are more emotional then women as a woman doesnt have to care about you, she chooses to as well as she can choose to crush you and your masculinity.

So thinking about a group of women and one man, that man better count his blessings if he pissed one if not all of them off lol.

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Polygamy isn’t just only men is allowed several wives, I don’t know where you got that definition.

the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time.

Polygamy allows both genders to have more than one husband or wife at the same time.

When a man is married to more than one wife at the same time, sociologists call this polygyny. When a woman is married to more than one husband at a time, it is called polyandry.

Both would get the benefits and burdens in various forms, there’s many women who have two or more husbands, there’s been some that have made it on the news and in articles.

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I agree with this 100%. A great example of Polygamy gone wrong is a family on the NetFlix’s Sister Wives. There’s is bad chemistry blend between two wives and it’s super toxic for them and their husband.

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Imho it’s better to satisfy just one wife(or girlfriend) than to merely have a bunch of wives(or girlfriends).
If you can’t satisfy one, you won’t be able to satisfy many.

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