Hello All,
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My ex and I broke up on 28th Jan, our relationship was a very sweet one, yet painful one because I failed to give him enough attention and affection as a girlfriend and I failed to prioritize the relationship when I had the chance to. I’ve made mistakes, and I’m regretting them terribly, and I’m desperate for another chance in this relationship to make things right. I just need him back, just once. If I tried my best and it doesn’t work out, it’s alright, I’ll move on. However I’m completely desperate for a chance with him again to work things out because I know what I should do, what I need to do, I know how to make things right, I just really want a chance to.
When we broke up, it was really tough. He promised to give the relationship one more chance and we spent the night together on 27th January, but on 28th January when he left house for work, he told me to leave his house, and when I did, he blocked me everywhere without an explanation or closure.
I panicked, I contacted my friends, his friends to get in contact with him to help me reach out to him, failed horribly.
On the 10th of February, he called me, out of nowhere, and he told me “let’s go on a last date and spend time together.” We met and stayed overnight at a hotel, with love and intimacy.
The next time we met was 16th February, where he asked me to go to his house, once again, intimacy and all. In between, he gives me calls almost once a day, to “check up” on me, we chit-chat, kept things light, he acted cute, gave me virtual kisses etc.
current situation:
I’ve been carrying out a love ritual since 13th February, it’s a 7 day ritual from here: 7-Day Love Attraction Kit - Advanced Level – THE LOVE WITCH
I’ve also requested help from a couple of spell casters from Fiverr, Etsy, Reddit, Quora (but its 80% a scam because I got ghosted, and I’ve spent almost every bit of my savings on it)
I’ve also engaged tarot readers to help me gain more clarity on the situation, and all three readings results is the same, so I trust it, which some of the information from the reading is:
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If he still loves me -
The card I drew for that question was the lovers; short answer is definitely yes. I pulled a clarifying card and I received the tortoise; slowly but surely making progress and coming to terms with the odds he’s set against himself. -
Is there a chance to salvage the relationship
For this I got Temperance; this is very much like the tortoise where all things are in moderation. It isn’t an excessive/obsessive amount of love, but it is finding love for the self to share. Clarity card for this was the stork - this is a new opportunity (to love himself) that he’s not sure what to do with, but it was hand delivered (my estimation, you made him aware of himself, and he’s reflecting on that!)
3 why is he blocking and ignoring me
I got the 7 of wands which means challenges and competition. Also protection and perseverance and stubbornness. He’s 100% trying to prove a point he knows is actually kinda silly, but the ego won’t let him back away! The clarity card from this was an older man, someone older that’s close to him and giving him bad advice
- He’s afraid that I won’t stick to my promises and continue doing things my way
- He doesn’t want to disappoint me
- He is stubborn and difficult but there is definitely still chance and hope
Now here is where I need help…
- I’d like him to not be stopped by his fears/overthinking, and not be affected by what other people think/feel/try to tell him, and get back together with me.
- He still loves me and he wants to get back together with me, but he is suppressing these thoughts and feelings. Can he put aside all of these and give in to his “temptation” to get back together with me? I’d like him to give the relationship another chance.
- I feel that the current ritual I’m doing, or simply just how the situation is currently, is that he loves me and is still keeping in contact with me, but he is still not giving in by getting back together with me. In such, only he can call me, but I’m blocked everywhere still, so it’s a one way communication path. Or when he wants to meet me, I’ll go down to meet him. The ball is in his court, and I’m just being left here hanging, waiting, and having hope. I live in constant regret and pain and I’m desperate to have another chance to make things right, and prove to him that I’ve changed, and I’ll never stop putting in the effort to be a good partner for him, since he still loves me so much.
Can anyone help me cast spells to remove the blockage that is stopping him from getting back together? To give him that little push he needs to let go of everything and give the relationship another chance? I just really want him to stop leaving me hanging and go “you know what, let’s give this another shot.” And I promise I’ll work out the rest myself.
Please, and Thank You.