Alright I’ll break this down:
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I would avoid getting Paimon involved in all this. From what I’ve seen from other peoples experiences/conversations with him, he isn’t big on helping out with love matters…so im not sure if he would be all that reliable here
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@Norski made a pretty good post which you can find here where he goes through his experiences with these demons of love and lust. Based on his experience and the experiences of others and your current situation, I’d Sallos is the best for love between you and her
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I would strongly advise that you stick to one entity (two at most) for this task…especially as a newcomer to magick. Trust me when i tell you that one spirit (Sallos, if you’d like) is more than enough to break them up and put the two of you back together. If you don’t feel comfortable doing just one rituals…select a set number of rituals before you embark on this pathworking…and stick to it. Don’t do any more or any less. Use a working system, and put as much emotion as you can into each ritual with the spirit as possible. The issue with adding all these spirits is that it often (especially when i see newcomers doing this) comes from a place of doubt. They doubt the ability of either themselves or an individual spirit to get the job done, so they assume dog-piling five or more spirits on the same task will get things done in quadruple the time with quadruple the effectiveness…but it doesn’t quite work out that way.