I agree, pendulums are perfect to get fast answers about questions that you may have.
Ground yourself with a Pendulum I recommend this topic because it was with this that my pendulum worked the first time I tried it (after cleansing it ofc, you can see some methods on how to do it in the topic as well), don’t know if it’s gonna work with you the first time though but one thing i’m sure about is that it will work sooner or later 
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