Benefits of a relationship, sexual or otherwise

We all have issues. Guess part of it is working around them, being a positive influence, forgiveness and an unmentioned trait but just focusing on your love for the person above all else and it will dissolve the negativity.

I also need to practice what I preach right here

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Humans aren’t intended I don’t think to be alone. We’re social creatures. The benefits of having a relationship are companionship, support, caring, friendship.

If it’s a romantic friendship then the sex is an added bonus.

I don’t see the drawbacks really unless you get involved with a narcissist.

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It has just seemed like a mass onslaught of imposter spirits/unintended actors playing psychological warfare to keep me from getting with someone, or it would simply be Murphys Law continually.
So it played with my head a lot.

In hindsight, Ive wondered what if I had nailed each imposter lol.

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Fuego I don’t think any malicious spirits are holding you back from having a satisfying relationship. I think you don’t feel your in a good spot to meet someone new and probably don’t have much confidence in yourself.

You have to work on you bro. Get yourself a stable job, your own place to live, a car, you’ll meet people who are right for you along the way.

Let me give you an example. Instead of doing a love spell I did a working with Sartmulu ( martian spirit) to help me lose weight. Once I did that finding a gf was easy.

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Right on, thanks :). I guess the upside is I funnel all this energy into art and magic instead. Maybe love magic between alpha males and the least physically desirable women. Just kidding, not malicious like that.

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Speaking of which, Im going to go paint my wand … excuse me.

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@Fuego What colors?

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Red Black and Blue. Black ring in the middle.
Idea was forceful or merciful banishing/invoking, banishing only occurring with red-black or blue-black held.
Posted a photo in Seeking a lateral move post.

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Been finding a few other branches or sticks here and there, still trying to pay attention when someone tells me to pick it up.

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There are medical solutions to this problem along with diet and exercise. As long your willing to take the pills or do the work or both you should be fine.

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But be careful what you take unless a stiffie for days on end. Be sure to really do your research before you take any specific pills for your heath and reputation.

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Only the doctor should tell him what to take. In any medical issue. The wrong pill in the right circumstances can outright kill a person. So he shouldn’t do any research and go to see a doctor to get a diagnosis.

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Wise words. I found out the hard way (nearly) that I get rare side effects off medications, Cialis for example I took daily (misinformation btw, take it only before sex), and it gave me suicidal ideation, nearly involuntarily admitting me to a psychiatry ward.
So, perhaps Viagra. I have found Extenze and similar products to be quite beneficial. Perhaps no smoking and exercise first. My diet is relatively small. Bad, but small.

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Anyone for that matter. Great point. Understand all points though.

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This depends greatly on the sex drive of the other person. If she has a healthy sex drive then yes it will be a problem. If she prefers to netflix and chill for some cuddle time on the couch more often then not them maybe not.

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I wasn’t talking about prescription medications. If it’s prescriptions medications then absolutely don’t abuse that but if it’s herbal then research is needed.

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The other thing I just thought of Fuego is that you might want to get your testosterone levels checked. They naturally go down as you age and this very could be the reason if your otherwise healthy.

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It’s great to have a relationship with a woman at any age. For example, when you’re in a relationship you can deal with such issues as:

  1. ‘You don’t care about my feelings!’ (Try dealing with that!)
  2. ‘You never spend time with me!’ (I’m working for both of us.)
  3. ‘You suffer premature ejaculation…’ (Pass.)
  4. ‘You work too long and don’t earn enough!’ (Guilty as charged!)

Then there’s the police who will destroy your life when she contacts them and says, ‘He’s subjected me to emotional abuse and micro-aggressions!’ Believe it or not, some years ago an American father was gaoled for paying his wife too much money by way of court ordered payment – let that sink in.

And sure, not all women are like that – but any of them could be. So, I say you should go for it, because if you have money in a pension/superannuation fund and given enough time, she can go for that as well. But you know, men have two heads and most men are governed by their little one.

Al.

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My ex wasn’t governed by the little head, he was governed by fake Ted on the astral. If you want a relationship, I suggest being with someone who has the capacity for love (and not some kind of fake robot zombie slave to the Illuminati)

Have a read of My Dream Date. There you go.

Al.

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