This is my take on astral sex: Itās pretty variable. I have had a sexual relationship with a spirit, or at least that there was a very alive sexual energy that worked with me for a while. I say āworkedā primarily because that is exactly what happened, she worked with me. Now as for interacting with her in a humanoid form, I canāt really say that this was the case, although I could here female voices.
Whether or not they can be of any help to you is something that you have to try to figure with the spirit itself. Before I had this relationship, I had no practice circulating energy at all. However, my first encounter with the spirit was similar to what people will describe as a Kundalini event, with sharps (not painful) jolts of energy coming from the region where the Muladhara is stationed (the base of the body/the perineum).
The relationship can be a hassle, however, if you are not familiar with working with your own energy, or working with spirits in general. If you can communicate with spirits, you might have a hard time controlling how and when certain activities go down. I remember being up for 3 hours every night trying to go to sleep because I could no shake this extreme stimulation, being kept at a point of near climax, but not entering climax. After a while, things began to feel uncomfortable, and I stopped it.
I was reintroduced sometime later, into current times. The relationship is much better, and after maturing I can be sure that things like discomfort came from a lack of spiritual development on my part, along with a complete lack of drive. If the only aim is sex, I would advise against it, because most sexual spirits have way more power than that, and the nature of spiritual sex will probably have you come head on with it at some point. However, if you want to enjoy sexually pleasure alchemy, this can be some of the best ways to do it. I tried Microcosmic Orbit training prior to this relationship, and I couldnāt get anything to go down with it. After this work, however, the meditation produces sound progress, and the ability to circulate energy is spot on. So, as with anything else, it really depends on you, what youāre doing, and what you are looking to do. I havenāt done any rituals with the entity, as I still want to learn to communicate better with her. However, in working with Chakras and energy centers, this is a place of great potential.