Yikes this is the realization that I had two years ago when I called some ancestors for a baneful working.
Just because they’re dead it doesn’t mean they evolved in some way and are willing to help you, even if you think it is justified, and just because they were related to you, it also doesn’t mean that they have to like you.
Yeah, proper in pain usually draw There energy right for self protection and don’t have a lot of banwidth to give to others.
And the slack is with the hand out asking to use use pain to your advantage. If I was her I’d feel pretty annoyed about that.
The only good interactions I get with restless guests is as a psychopomp where I’m helping them, and if I can, freeing them to get on with tier spiritual journey. They’re not always nice even then but people are people.
That includes what seemed like an intranquil spirit last year. I thought it was Santa muerte at first. But it was this screaming woman who just needed out.
That changed my opinion on intranquil spirits. So I’m just using tortured souls is a pretty scummy thing to do and I won’t do it.