I wouldn’t say that I’ve had anger issues, but there have been times in my life when I’ve felt a lot of rage and hatred on a daily basis. The thing is, you have to feel the emotions or they’ll hide in your subconscious and mess with you in ways that you don’t want.
I think summoning demons is really the thing to do for learning how to live with negative emotions and make them a force that benefits and improves your life. Sometimes you just need to destroy. What you destroy makes all the difference.
Sometimes, there are people that you need to destroy. If someone comes at me with malicious intent, I don’t let them hurt me. I destroy their ability to harm me. Sometimes, there are aspects of myself that I need to destroy. This is not about self-harm, but about removing toxins and false limitations. I’ve seen the power of baneful magick cast on others to bring devastation. The same power can eliminate your own weaknesses. The same power can destroy structures that hold people down.
I don’t like to constantly spew my own stuff, so at the risk of sounding like a broken record, here’s a ritual I received from Lucifer. It will make you confront your emotions in a very direct way so that you can direct them to where they will serve you well and be in balance. It will teach you control.