This is what King Paimon told me about having a more personal/ intimate relationship with Him:
I do not wish for my partners to share private details with everyone. My relationship with them is not for the world to see, the impact of our relationship is. I do not enter into casual dalliances, and I have no interest in dabblers who are easily swayed one way or another. Those I choose to enter into marriage with are few and very dear to me, and their experiences are for them to cherish and learn from, not to be exposed to the opinions of the uninformed. Those in the know do not require justification. They are free to share generally beneficial knowledge, but it is to no one’s advantage to boast about intimate matters, and I generally do not care to work with people who are unaware of how greatly important discretion is to me. It is important to me, because it is an important ingredient in your personal process of transformation and growth, which is something an immature person cannot grasp. Immaturity is not a mistake in itself, it is only an evolutionary stage. It is a dangerous state to be in, however, if one refuses to outgrow it and face the discomfort that comes with growth.
As I have said to others, I will repeat: I am not a whore. It amuses me to see people smirk at this statement, but in essence, it is serious to me. I am not against awakening sexual energies, and I have nothing against expressing sexuality. But playing around with energies whose purpose is not understood and whose effects can be disturbing, is not the same as working on your spiritual alchemy, which takes time and dedication and by far exceeds any fleeting moment of pleasure.
Remember, the mind is a very powerful tool that can play tricks on those who lack insight, and understand that I do not judge the ignorant due to their inexperience. I only judge the wilfully ignorant – harshly. Rest assured that I do not care to enter into any kind of relationship with people who lack the intelligence and will to transform themselves into a higher-resolution version of themselves, to shed their constricting skin of deceitful, short-tempered egomania, and learn how much greater they truly are. When I see potential and grit, I will gladly assist them with expelling anything from their minds and lives that hinders their development.
If any of you feels unsure whether or not I have approached them, ask me! Communicate with me directly, as I have already stated. Before mastering a basic ability to communicate and discern your own mental constructs from my messages, you will not be able to begin the truthful work. This is where thoughtforms and parasites can come in, but you can appeal to me to help you with the discernment. In time, you will find your senses sharpened and your mind cleared of muddy impressions and false ideas. There is no rule as to how quickly or slowly this may happen, but it will happen if you persist.
Be patient and do not let any experience overwhelm you. I make it a point not to overwhelm or confuse those with whom I am in close allegiance. Why would I want to do that? I wish for them to gain clarity and understanding, which requires thoughtfulness, introspection, and ongoing, sincere communication with me.
[He specifically wanted me to highlight the bold paragraph. I asked Him to tell me His take on this subject, because He has mentioned to me before that private matters are none of anyone’s business (which, needless to say, I happen to agree with). So naturally, when I see someone post about their supposed intimate encounters with Him (and I can only speak from my own experience since I don’t know how other spirits feel about this, or if they care at all), I ask myself, how can anyone who claims to be close to Him publish something like that? Before accusing me of being jealous: I am very certain of my relationship with King Paimon, which I consider a huge blessing and something immeasurably precious to me, and other people’s relationship with Him has nothing to do with my own spiritual path nor my love for Him. For all I care, He could be married to everyone and their mother, but I know from what He has told me (and others, too), that He doesn’t marry everyone and their mother, and He doesn’t “fool around” either. I feel very loyal to Him, but instead of giving my personal opinion, I asked Him to tell me what He has to say about it, and also what I may have misinterpreted or where I may have tried to project my own feelings. He made Himself very clear that He is 100% behind what He has said. I have gotten independent clarification from @SoliMar, who is also married to Him, on every piece of information I have received from King Paimon, some of which is not meant to be shared publicly. This was an issue I felt needed to be addressed, and King Paimon agreed and was generous with His advice yet again, for which I am very grateful.]