To be fair, members did warn you that love spells can be perceived as psychic attacks and make the target run - they don’t even know why it’s a deep instinct that you have become a predator and the rabbit runs away - it’s a very common backfire in love magick:
It doesn’t matter if they practice magick or not - ALL humans are psychic and just haven’t developed control, all of them have intuition and gut instincts.
Either that or you said something they didn’t like and it was the last straw.