Well, could be it’s just your approach is problematic; perhaps instead of trying to change her behavior you could enchant for circumstances in her life to change so she moves?
Thanks, I’m happy it helped! 
OK, here goes:
You are represented by the Hermit, a mostly solitary, introspective person who has done plenty of soul-searching as to why your manifestation for a new house hasn’t worked yet.
You are crossed by Strife. Your plans keep breaking apart and chaos in the form of the fiery Wands has brought you to this point.
I see the need to master your emotions and rein in any doubt and fear that pop up: the crowning Prince of Cups demonstrates this by commanding firmly from his eagle and holding his emotions securely in his hand.
At root of this all is Defeat, pretty self-explanatory.
In the past I see the resolve to make this happen in the Strength card. You’re not shying away from taking action, nor are you buckling under the weight of what’s needed: all that’s lacking is the right direction.
In the future I see the need to decide which course of action harmonizes with you the best. The Virtue card signifies taking actions that are in accordance with your own Dharma; have the methods you’ve used up until this point truly felt right, or more so like you’re grasping at different alternatives in desperation? Ask yourself what spirit(s) or methods you vibe with the most, then go from there. Otherwise it’s like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.
Your emotional state is represented by the Prince of Wands. You’ve already got the Will to make it happen, so pick your Lion appropriately and let it pull your chariot where it needs to go.
The environmental factors are signified by the Knight of Disks. You see the stability around you that you desire in a friend or family member and you aspire to that same goal.
Your hope is that of Luxury, of not just settling for some hole-in-the-wall but in making the stars align to manifest an abode truly fit for a King.
Finally, for the final outcome we have Prudence, the Queen of Cups, and The Emperor. I interpret this as you need to become like the Queen, perfectly calm in a transparent pool of water, floating deep within yourself, and you will find the right method to move forward and take charge of your living situation. It will take time, effort, and planning, but if you can quiet the worrying naggings of the monkey mind you can make it happen. 