So my super awesome boyfriend, sent my favorite chocolate. I tend to read the messages and toss them, but yesterday morning, I picked five pieces out of the bag and four of them had this message. The first one made me pause and think, Well yeah. By the time I had consumed five pieces with same message four times, I had to wonder if this was not a subject that we should have a discussion about.
You know they say, As above, so below. Where thought goes, energy flows and so on and so forth.
I started thinking about the people in my life and why I was attracted to them.
Originally, I was attracted to @Anziel_Merkaba because he responds to me like someone else did. He’s able to banter endlessly and keep up with me, he can handle my attitude, my humor and he makes me laugh with his dumbass sense of humor, on top of he treats me pretty damned good for me being a cold-hearted bitch.
Then there’s @dagar . I’m attracted to him, because he needs emotional healing, and he has a decent sense of humor.
@Angelb1083 has a similar personality as mine.
@norse900 reminds me of my daddy, funny, smart and military.
@ReyCuervo 's doubtful mind, is often like my own.
@QueenMustang tell’s it like it is.
@Anassa is her self, no matter what and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about it.
@DarkestKnight is able to keep the logic, within the magical.
@Nomad is a sarcastic jerk
@Velenos will argue with anyone to the death. (When he’s explaining/has a point to make etc)
That’s just a few for example, I can’t tag everyone there is a limit. If we get into entities, I’m attracted to the ones that people consider tricksters, trouble makers, those that are dangerous.
Samedi is my clown.
Azazel is an asshole that only shows up when he wants something.
Elubatel puts me in my place and pushes me to do the hard things.
Epione is the goddess of soothing comfort.
I could go on and on with examples, but the point is if you’re not happy with those in your life- be it people, entities, online friends etc It may be that the vibe you are putting out there, is your problem. Are you attracting the wrong people, because you are always in a pity party? Do you attract people that use and abuse you? Are you attracting asshole from either gender that don’t appreciate your value?
I could probably work this backwards, and come up with the reasons I believe the people in my life are attracted to me, and learn even more about myself. One of the things I hear in pms all the time, is that people write to me for advice or whatever it is- because I’m real. Because they can tell I am a real person and even though I’m doing this magic thing, and I’m getting results, I don’t make it sound like this Hollywood or impossible. I talk about the real things, the struggles, I keep things realistic- or I try to.
So is your vibe attracting the wrong tribe? If you have all the wrong types of people in your life, maybe you need to consider what you are putting out there and make some adjustments.
Just food for thought