Based on my observations, the way how They will handle you is mostly depends on how you handle Them (thoughts, actions, everything can matter) or/and even yourself.
Every one of Them have Their own personality (or personalities, as Aspects, Masks too), so of course you can experience different behavior from different Deities in different situations, but this is absolute natural.
Besides websites about Them, I like to reading experiences connectiong to Them (yes, I’ve heard about conjurers unpleasant experiences with some of Them), because those are most personal things like a simple description, and it can help to understand the Deity (but nothing will be thas effective like doing it by your own).
I’ve always believe in: get informations as many as you can as many source from you can, but start every relationship with a Deity with a crystal clear card, cleanse your mind and let Him/Her reveal Himself/Herself, as you do the same.
It seems that any popular research you find on them is always pointing toward the darks side, causing death, destruction, disease and the like throughout history
Humans find lot of natural things terrible, but this is how religious and political machines are working, and this is all coming from the human’s ego and ignorance, bias and from lot of stuffs what they hate anyway but still beating even inside that person, too. What lot of religions doing then? They’ll use these against humanity, and attempts to control them via their religion.
Then I feel like I am on the right track. I want people to know what’s really out there and what they truly are capable of.
Last day I’ve talked with a person and somewhere he mentioned that he won’t obtain information stuffs what he can’t stand (political, religious and so on). Exactly this behavior is why lot of people won’t understand the world around himself and change: They are don’t want to.
And because of it, you won’t change them. Nothing will change them till they do not decide chosing this path. And why would anyone leave a religion what cause them the illusion of safety? They accept these immediately, and do not want to find out more, they’re got are satisfied by these.