I have had some concerns that people are being drawn to these beings for the wrong reasons, and I would like to help or at least understand.
What is a succubus to you?
and
Why the appeal?
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I find people are drawn to succubus because they are modernly seen as beings of sex and lust so they are “easy to get” in those people’s minds compared to a physical relationship or a spiritual one with other entities. But generally if you go by the idea of them being the sumerian entities then succubus are blood feeders/killers of men and baby eaters lol.
Rarely have I seen some people go for other entities such as kitsune, fae, angels, other kinds of demons, yokai, etc. So I think it’s just a deeply ingrained idea brought on by basic understanding of succubus that eventually evolves into love but in the end it’s still a deeply ingrained sexual idea around the aforementioned of them.
I find if succubus were never seen as beings of lust they wouldn’t get much attention.
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I agree with @anon48079295. For many, a succubus is a sex fantasy come to life.
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Hopefully, this thread won’t become controversial.
The simple reason is that one person too many happens to be lonely and lack any real coping mechanism against loneliness. And the lack of understanding to see that loneliness isn’t always a bad thing.
Plus: the occult is the last haven for incels. Plus: people needs escapism (and apparently reading a book is too much work); escapism isn’t a bad thing per se, it’s a tool and used right will give good results.
The thing that baffles me is that the recount of bad experiences is way bigger than the recount of good experiences, so I really don’t get why people keep insisting on this whole issue. Maybe because there is no letter of intention to call an angel? Maybe because real Angels won’t give many fucks to people that sees them as fuck toys?
And, oh, well, there is the fact that if someone says “I have a huge harem of inccubi and succubi” we will never know if it is true or not, we just believe. Or not.
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I also guess that people who are in whatever kind of way involved in non-succubus relationships towards spirits simply won’t talk that much about their experiences (because they happen to engage into such a relationship for different reasons than sexual attraction or the longing for physical sensations. They probably don’t see a reason to compare their experiences to others, so you won’t see or hear these folks all too often)
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That’s true, I dont see much talk on relationships with other entities, they’ll mention it maybe once to give you an idea but after that they won’t talk about it willy nilly, like a physical relationship “it’s my business not yours” kind of thing.
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That too. People in spiritual marriages with other sort of spirits have told me (US, actually) anecdotes, but all of them go more or less for the lines of “And then I didn’t do X and SPIRIT HUSBAND kicked my ass into form. And my life is better for it”.
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I had a Succubus vs Harlot thread these terms aren’t mutually exclusive one can and is often both and I wonder if people would be better with Harlots or not?
People were more offending by the term Harlot which is less recognized but does sort of mean whore, I would rather have sex with a Harlot than one who is known for vamping a person.
But by the sounds of things it sounds like people don’t really want angels or demons or succubus/incubuses or Harlots or whores but rather a spirit that will actually love them.
Am I missing something?
So all these people are mostly turning to black magick and vampire spirits for love?
Is that what is going on here?
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Most have turned to succubus for spiritual sexual pleasure, and on accounts have admitted they prefer this over putting work into physical relationships (not all but a handful of men/women have stated this) but there does exist people who seek these entities out for meaningful relationships.
I just believe it sparks from the fact succubus are known for lust so initially that is their train of thought, while with angels and such it’s a bit more genuine since there’s no mention of lust when regarding those beings initially.
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Yeah I’m talking about Harlots and spiritual prostitutes’ not angels. They usually don’t have relationships with people, either of them really.
I guess what people might want to consider if they want amazing sex but not a relationship or go into the whoring them selves is start a whore session paying for them with orgasms, until moving onto the succubus phase where they can grab energy in exchange for pleasure.
Not sure that’s a good idea either, sounds ridiculous when saying it but it might be better than many deals people are making and aren’t aware of the consequences.
A succubus picked me, had to figure out what it was and what was going on, but I’m gratefull for it, especially the times I feel her strongly.
I don’t see, hear or experience my succubus in other ways than physical, when she touches my body.
I wish I could see her in dreams some way, but I’m just gratefull that I feel her
The old tales about Succubi being malicious is exaggerated imo.
I see alot of people wanting to summon one, like a one night stand, though I feel that is not what I would do, it is what appeals to many people, it’s just how we are as humans, sex is a powerfull force.
now that I think about it, it would probably be exactly what I would do, if I heard about it and didn’t have my succubus around
Sometimes it seems we have no choice in the matter, just look at this old
Zohar piece:
"At times it happens that Naamah goes forth into the world to become hot from the sons of man, and a man finds himself in a connection of lust with her, and he awakens from his sleep and takes hold of his wife and lies with her. And this desire comes from that lust which he had in his dream.
- Then the child that she begets comes from the side of Naamah, for the man was driven by his lust for her. And when Lilith comes and sees that child, she knows what happened, and she ties herself to him and brings him up like all those other sons of Naamah. And she is with him many times, but does not kill him.*
This is the man who becomes blemished on every New Moon, for she never gives him up. For month after month, when the moon becomes renewed in the world Lilith comes forth and visits all those whom she brings up, and makes sport with them, and therefore that person is blemished at that time.*
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Does she try to get you to become a succubus? or a whore? or serious vamp you? Is she even of the infernal? Which chakra did she touch first? What if she’s not even a succubi at all? That would probably be good. All though if thats the case you might want to quit calling her a succubi.
I think that’s because they don’t know what the fck they are doing or how it actually works because they go into it thinking they get a sex doll that is theirs and theirs alone and will never leave their side.
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I honestly was drawn to them for the whole sex spirit thing, that and I was extremely lonely.
But after I got a Succubus, I realised that they were more than just sex spirits and they have personality and different likes and dislikes. Now I am happily married to two and sex is the farthest thing from my mind.
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were you asking me?
Does she try to get you to become a succubus or a whore?
Nope, I don’t think it works that way, I guess I’m a standard horny male, so no change is needed 
Is she even of the infernal?
I have no clue, I just read various descriptions of Succubi encounters, which in turn lead me here, as I said earlier, the only way I sense my Succubus is through physical touches when I lay down to rest.
Though I had a lucid dream years back that might have started it all, though that is just guessing.
What if she’s not even a succubi at all? if thats the case you might want to quit calling her a succubi.
I don’t think she gives a fuck what I call her 
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The first thing on your mind probably should be how to get out of marriage, they are taking you to the Hell regions and probably have more husbands, certainly more clients. not to be rude just making sure you know, otherwise it sounds like you are being so dipped in honey you are forgetting about the sugar.
Do you think that could be the case?
You might want to look into this but you might have something good going an actual relationship, I don’t know what other black magick you do, hopefully nothing screwy. If she is okay with whatever you call her, what is wrong with calling her your bitch? That maybe bad but just the term succubus can attract some nasty stuff I don’t think you want.
Even if it was, I honestly don’t care. They have shown multiple times that they love and care about me, and they also are the ones who tell me when I am acting dumb.
And I know that they have more husbands, they have been around for thousands of human years, and I don’t mind. Seriously, I am married to three spirits, I am a polygamist so it doesn’t bother me that they have other husbands.
And finally, as I have stated before, I don’t believe in the christian “hell”, or more accurately, the hell described in Dante’s Inferno. In fact, I believe I once read in a book by a biblical scholor that a lot of christians and cathloics mix Dante’s Inferno hell with their own.
Anyway, getting off track, I wouldn’t care if they took me to their home, wherever that may be. As long as I get to stay with them I am happy, and hey, if they are from the Infernal Empire, then I get to hang out with my demonic father Asmodeus.
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This is very important, a lot of people don’t pay attention to the fact that the succubus/incubus feeds on their energy.
If the practitioner isn’t experienced, this could mess up their health really bad.
If your senses aren’t developed enough to communicate with the demon / you don’t actually work with it for things that matter (knowledge, development), the demon benefits most and you don’t benefit much at all.
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Ask for them to take you to their home in the astral.
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