A Soul are able to decide if he/she want to manifest/incarnate himself/herself in the matieral world or not (of course, it’s possibility is depends on several things). It is not about “you are lucky spirit, jackpot, you got a ticket to the earth” stuff, at all. Well known fact that there are incarnated Demons between us.
There are very, very young souls, who didn’t really had too much incarnation. Their abilities, senses aren’t that good, they have to learn and experience so much more to get an exact level, and have to incarnate more times. Their relationship with spirits usually seems different and the way how they start cooperate (in their case, it can be possible that several spirit will help them, absolutely by compassion - for they are young souls, with less incarnate = experience and power, knowledge).
At the same time, there are ancient Souls, who as a human already born with better abilities, senses, and knowledge, without learning about them - why? Because they are worked on it for a very-very long time. They are in a higher level, they already experienced more lifetime in the physical world, which is a very important thing if you want develop yourself, inside and outside the material world (so its put an effect on your Spirit’s power and abilities etc).
Based on my experiences, as many time I’ve asked about these kind of things from Deities, none of Them told me that everything around me, with Them, is happening because of Compassion, at all.
Lucifer, Belial, Azazel, Abaddon, none of Them has talked about this, but something greater. I’ve spend a lot of time in other planes to find out, with Their help, on Their presence as well.
I grew up without reading any books about magick, and Deities/Demons and even so, I knew about Them, I knew things, about magick, I was able to use my senses and my power without practiceing it before, from my very young age. Demons are followed me, everywhere, and several Deities told me that These meetinga had to happen. It was already clear before I would incarnate, WE know about this, because it wasn’t only about myself.
I’ve meet several magickians, shamans before, and they kept telling me that 'You are an ancient one".
I didn’t really cared about it at those times, the first experience of mine, what was similar like this happened when I was 7 years old. But how the time has passed, I’ve heard it again, and again, and now… I know it thankfully by Deities.
Knowing about this, well… yes, if someone get that kind of vibes from a Deity/Demon/Angel that everything why he got help is compassion, in his case, it can be true. But everyone is just one fish in the ocean, and everyone has their own history, no matter how young or old they are (and their own cosmic bussiness).