I’m looking for something that would hold them to their word and keep them from backing out last min. I’m getting older lol, my time is precious, and I literally cannot afford waste time or resources. So something surefire that’ll act as a magickal consequence for them every time they to try back out and gets more intense overtime.
Anybody have any ideas?
what is the reason why they are flaking?
Is it fear?
Is it lack of interest?
Is it doubt?
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And if it isn’t any of this… could it be that you should try a more gentle approach to your magic?
Sometimes too much force is not a great thing.
Potentially it’s some combination of all three in different cases. I cannot say for certain as the situations very along with the variables. So I’d rather not resort to something as extreme as a binding spell but I can say for sure that sweetening jars alone are not working.
If you don’t know specifically the issue you cannot find a solution.
So if the parameters are variable, then you have to find a solution that fits these parameters and adjusts to the variations
Well I did have someone on different site recommend a binding spell using a picture of that person and a rubber band or piece of string. They recommended a rubber band that I can easily take it off, as I just wish they would make up their mind when we agree to meet, not necessarily be that way forever. The idea is that you bind the traits you don’t like and when you feel is it’s no longer necessary simply remove the rubber band for easy spell disassembly. That’s about all I have as far as finding a spell flexible enough for the situation.
Is it a love spell that your target is resisting?
Are you talking about the sweetening jars or the photo binding spell?
no. This is not what I am talking about.
I am asking if you are trying to influence a romantic partner, a business partner or a courtcase etc.
Once I know about what type of spell we are talking about I will tell you my opinion about it.
Oh I’m sorry… It’s a potential romantic partner. I’ve done tarot readings on them before. There is interest but there is also other factors at play that compete for there interest.
Ok… now we are talking.
So… this is my opinion.
When you bind someone, it is exactly like putting ropes around their wrists and legs and binding them not moving. Correct? You might not be doing it in real life but you are doing it energetically.
Do you know anyone who is happy to lose their freedom and be binded? So you are creating energetic resentment.
If it was about a target that you wanted to channel baneful energy, I fully understand. You would had wanted to bind someone who would spread bad rumours for example about you. You wouldn’t have cared about what is their feelings about you. You would had wanted to get protected.
As you understand you do not want to involve such energy in a love situation. Love spells are seduction. They are influence.
You are influencing someone to like you and come your way. It is like a boost on your flirting and courting methods.
You are sending lustful waves to them so they feel turned on by your presence, you make them perceive you as a high value person, you make them notice your amazing qualities about yourself, you make them feel addicted to the positive feelings they get when they are in your presence hence they get addicted to you and want to have more of you. This is all a gentle energy… a happy positive energy.
You make them feel butterflies in their stomach about you because you stand out in comparison with everyone else.
If you were the one who was being targetted to be seduced you would had wanted to go towards the direction of the person you would had found to be the one you CHOSE because they were unique. I am sure you wouldn’t want someone to bind you down on a chair and try to shove into your head that they were amazing. So no. Binding is not a great combination with love and seduction. Plus when it wears off it creates resentment.
Now about the method of binding and unbinding the target… energy is not a lightswitch that you switch on and off and it immediately obeys. It is a wave. You cannot stop instantly a wave and even if this would had worked you would have had delays and a complete chaos as it would get mixed up with the love and lust energy and it would create even more unstable results.
So…
Are the outside influences other people who are trying to seduce your target and your target responds to them more? I would suggest you start doing glamour spells on yourself and if you work with demons I think it is Belial who can help you come accross as a high status person.
Is it low sexual interest? Ask a spirit to increase feelings of lust on your target.
Is it limiting beliefs? Do a spell with a spirit who can influence their thoughts and make them drop their guard.
Do you have issues with keeping them enganged into conversations etc? Ask another spirit to increase your charisma.
When it comes to maximising the effects of your spells another important thing is to CHANGE YOUR OWN FREQUENCY AND VIBRATION.
Make sure you are not obsessing about your target for example. Nobody feels attracted to someone who is obsessing over them. Even if they don’t know this openly, they can sense it. Do your spell work and decentre them. Focus on improving yourself, your self esteem, your confidence, working on any past traumas etc. Improving your energy is a type of a glamour spell because you become in general more attractive.
If now your target is influenced by other people trying to put ideas into their mind then THIS is when you do a binding to stop them to talk badly about you. Do you see my point? NOT on your target.
If your person is in another relationship with someone else then do a nice breakup spell, trust the process and focus on you. Focus on you with the mindset that once your person is in your life, in order to keep them you need to have your life together, yourself, your traumas sorted out, your lifestyle etc. so you can actually keep them in your life.
It is highly important that you work on yourself and your energy.
And while you are working using spells you need to do work in real life. I mean talk to them, create a bond, create memories etc.
I asked you a few questions in the beginning to see what is causing the issues of the unstable results. I did not get a specific answer.
I believe that if you provide me with more information about the specific obstacles I can be more helpful.
I do actually, are you a guy asking out a girl?
If you PM me I can give you the full details. I prefer not to disclose that publicly. 
I can provide you with more if you PM me as with Omegashenron.
Well I didn’t mean that many details but oh well… I will PM you.I added Omega too so all 3 of us can have a chat.