What do you do when you feel lonely?

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Netflix, meditation, or smoke sesh. Oh! And everyone else is right. Masturbation helps. A life mentor of mine once said, “Can’t be sad when you’re jerking off.”

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Well the problem is after 90 seconds you will become sadder than before.!

The worst kind of loneliness is when your surrounded by loved ones.
I use to escape through sleep. I use to lucid dream and astral travel every night and during the day I would disappear in the jungle as a kid. As an adult…Im getting back to my dreamtime adventures but its not satisfying. I personally need more adventure and excitement in my life, I have a bucket list on my wall I need to start working towards.
Do you need excitement and adventure?

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Glad the exercise was posted (I tend to avoid gyms and had my own under a tree and yurt I made.

I don’t have the pics of the giant magic circle I made (also a walking running track. Just google earth 87184 Central Rd Eugene oregon. You’ll see it and the paths I created by hand. [turn on satellite version of google maps)

I don’t have pics on phone of the entire gym but I have an old duffle bag turned into a punching bag, the old universal with frayed cables


I had a tetherball poll and new tetherball I just bought, bocci, horseshoes, tons of equipment I either bought or made including a trapeze pull-up bar. 3 tents (1 tool tent, 1 car tent, 1 meditation ritual tent), my earth shrine, etc.

The circle was dug by hand and I created 8 earth mounds around it. In the center is my cat graveyard of stone & steel with stone offering box when I find dead animal parts or bodies like mice, birds, etc.

Sure my parents had the house but I was always by myself and certainly felt annoyed at times with them. The circle used to have several wooden poles with solar lights but during the 2016 crazy dad banishment of me he destroyed them. They said it was a witches circle.

Alone a problem? Hells no. Fucking family annoys me much of the time. I paid the property taxes and hoped to own the land. Doubt that’s happening now.

People can fuck you over. Enjoy the solitude as it is YOUR SPACE TO DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT TO… and NO JUDGEMENT!!!

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I would read On Love and Loneliness by J Krishnamurti. Till I read it I didn’t know what exactly loneliness was…loneliness is what left when you have experienced all possible sensations available to you. Loneliness can be turned into something magical through attention.

What a wise man, indeed!

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Wow! Looks like I missed some true master piece from his bibliography. Thanks for suggesting, man. Will for sure give it a try.

That’s probably one of the best quotes I have read!!!

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Learn to enjoy your own company. Treating your self as though you were another person. Doing stuff for yourself and things of that nature.

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Those are not his exact words but the meaning is from him.

For those who love Tarkovsky and the great Russia.

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I don’t really have time to feel lonely.

My schedule is so full I barely have time to work on my psychic skills / meditation. Maybe because i’m a student that I don’t have enough time.

I don’t even have the time to go out and meet girls / dates lmfao. But I can’t be bothered.

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I pick my audio recorder and psb-7 spirit box and talk to spirits :slight_smile:

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I cry and think about suicide… lol really though I love being alone it’s great I hate ppl in general so alone time is the best I can meditate watch movies eat food sleep and jerk off to porn also can watch YouTube listen to music and go for walks plus Azazel has told me I am never alone and he is always watching me which is true because even alone I feel eyes watching my every move

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sounds nuts but I always feel like I am being watched by the spirits so never truly alone also I am a hermit hippie so I could live in a tent out in the woods and be cool with no human contact

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I no this is unrelated to the thread but habe you played the game agony? I just saw it today and thought about the people on this forum. it’s about being in hell I want to check it out

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Well, agony might be better than Hatred depending on your mindset. Agony is more thought provoking while hatred can become monotonous (I call it postal on speed + roids).

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When lonely, bored/tired or frustrated I take a nap to recharge myself and come up with focus, ideas about activities to do. But I’ve also read that the Buddhist mantra “Om Muni Muni Maha Muni Shakiamunye Soha” may help.

Masturbation, then hulu and guildwars 2.

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I touch my self but sometimes I am watches by spirits and feels awkward

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i dont have a pc that can handle those kind of games,i instead have fun on roblox,terraria and others