It takes serious willpower to give up social media. Even if you delete the Facebook app, you still get notifications because most phones come with it already downloaded, and I don’t think you can completely delete it.
When you are just innocently looking up pictures online, you are taken to the website only to be propositioned by their app, and many times you can’t view anymore unless you download it.
Everywhere you go, every store you walk into, there is an app being advertised to you. They know it only takes a few minutes to download it, they know you have your phone in hand and that few minutes waiting for your coffee will be used downloading it.
Every commercial you see nowadays has their actors using their phone to make things easier in relation to whatever they are selling. It’s all on your phone!
It’s become so deeply rooted in our culture that it’s actually almost unrealistic to attempt to lead a life without a smartphone. They make it nearly impossible to do certain things if you don’t have one. Some stores have even implemented an app that makes you scan a barcode to see their menu or to sign in to get their services.
It’s difficult to avoid the temptation when it is constantly shoved in your face and presented as the norm. After all, what else is there to do when you are in a room filled with people who have their eyes plastered to their phone screen to avoid the awkwardness of human interaction and how boring every day life is?
Bring a book. There are lots of pocket sized books out there. Write in your journal. Practice some mindfulness techniques or breathing exercises. Strike up a conversation with a stranger – you will both be pulled out from the hypnosis of social media for a moment to make a meaningful connection, whether it’s short-lived or not.
I’ve deleted everything (except for this site, which, admittedly, I can spend less time on) and I am a much happier person. Bored? I go on a walk, I read a book, I dance to music, I practice an instrument, I meditate, I exercise, I swim in the pool, I try to talk to birds and feed nuts to squirrels, etc. I end my day with so many more memorable and important moments that I would have completely missed out on if I hadn’t put my phone down.
You do not learn anything about yourself or the world around you when you are sucked into social media, and if you do the math, you will be horrified at how much time you have wasted by mindless scrolling.
You will notice how much more confident and self assured you are when you delete social media apps. You no longer base what you do or say on the attention or validation you will receive online. I used to find myself doing things with the sole purpose being so that I can take pictures and post about it later. What kind of a life is that to live?
It isn’t.
It may be the norm, but it doesn’t have to be your norm.