Haha, you were a step ahead of me to already know Raidho had to do with “the Journey we all take on our lives” and “the need to pay attention to the Journey and not focus so hard on the end goal that we don’t enjoy the Journey”. It looks like already being conscious of that freed your time to press further beyond that initial realization, whereas hard-headed old me needed my five whole days to truly take that idea into my life!
From Fehu through this point, I was still home for the holidays on post-deployment leave from Afghanistan. I was conscious of living in utter Western luxury, I didn’t have to worry about anyone trying to kill me, I slept and ate and fucked like a savage god - but at this point in my rune work, I became restless.
I felt really guilty at first because I had so much compared to so many and somehow wasn’t satisfied. It was kind of natural for me to yearn for a break from my family - I’m all for familial duty but it’s just healthy for a son to strike out and make his fortune independently. But even when I stayed with my girl, who was great and very patient with me after coming back from over there, my week with Raidho introduced this powerful familiar primal urge to roam and discover that I actually thought I should quash out of devotion to her.
Thing is, that only contributed to more restlessness and waking up while she was still asleep to plan things for the future that - honestly, even though it’s kind of fucked up - I just couldn’t picture her choosing to keep up with. So how does this tragedy end?
Not that tragically, actually. It seems like the way a lot of the runes worked with me was in steeping my life in a challenging level of their energies, and then leading me to the knowledge that would reconcile what I found myself dealing with. In Raidho’s case, it was just what was mentioned on Orismen’s blog: “the need to pay attention to the Journey and not focus so hard on the end goal that we don’t enjoy the Journey”. In addition for me, a sense of Perspective: how where I was came about because of my Journey so far, and how many limitless possibilities lay in store for me as long as I didn’t rest content but -continued- the Journey I’d started long ago.
I was treating the wanderlust and longing for new horizons as something immature and “bad” that reflected unworthiness of loving the woman I was with, when slowly I was made aware that it was just part (a fucking -important- part that had spurred to development my whole life!) of me, and that propagation of the idea of its “badness” stemmed from -other- cultures, -other- viewpoints, and -other- people and -their- ideals. And that as long as I refused to recognize what in my mental make-up came from myself and what came from “outside”, I would never truly be Free.
So, not nearly as dramatic as my lessons from some of the preceding and succeeding runes - and I do apologize that the context of this realization is kind of personal and maybe any readers can’t relate or just don’t care to hear it - but this was the realization that -I- needed to gain from this rune, and Raidho is one that is still very near to my heart.
Hail, guys, walk in your own light and don’t feel guilty over needing to crest the next horizon,
Claidheam.