Do you ‘use’ tantra to develop your magical abilities? What is tantra? It means ‘to weave’. Weave what? Energy. it means to face everything as part of your development …but let’s be real here, it means having the ability to engage in sex-stimulation with yourself and/or someone else but controlling the body’s natural urge to ejaculate so you ‘last long’. Very long.
How? By strengthening your prostate muscle or kegel-muscles via will power and breath control and energy awareness.
any real tantric will tell you thats not what it is about. There are certain rituals that involve sex in tantra but it is not about the sex or pleasure itself, its about worshipping an entity and release of sexual energy. During the entire time you chant the mantra of the deity and you focus on worship, not sex. as soon as you focus on the sex you must focus back to worship. Its very difficult. This form of orgasm, with the help of the deity, can release powerful kundalini up the spine and activate the chakras, even during it aswell. Western tantra is something entirely different. It focuses on sexual stimulation and only stimulation, without gaining anything from it. it just wastes spiritual energy you could have used for something else.
if you want to practice sex magick that is your choice, nothing wrong with it. Shooting energy up the spine to active the chakras is just my preferred method because it leads to immense joy and happiness. It is just preference. I am not that into black magick and prefer the lighter side of life, kundalini allows that.