I’ve done the first ritual before, and that relationship burnt out shortly after. There was a lack of cultural understanding on my part which caused me to not behave “correctly.” If she were of a different culture, things would probably have gone differently. I’m not making any value judgements here, that’s just how it is. I wasn’t able to communicate with her effectively, and that tends to cause problems. She gave me my stuff back but took me up on the offer to leave it at the door, so maybe that gives you a bit of an idea of how that went. The significant moments also happened to line-up with a particularly distressing event for her that happened that day (unrelated to me), which I assume also spread out onto me.
Aside from it being an amusingly unfortunate series of events, it was ultimately a good thing, though. If I was still with her, then subsequent moves I made would not have gone as I needed them to go (which they did). I also never really had much intention for it to be anything beyond a few months thing while we were living in the same area for a brief period of time, so it wasn’t a big deal. She wasn’t an artist, so there’s not really much else to think about.