Spiritual Marriage and Boundaries:

[Lux_Tenebris]

Hey OP, I‘ve written some things here that may be of use to you. Other than that, the reply above is really great, solid advice.

@Lux_Tenebris

Spirit marriages are serious business. Read that again: serious + business. Serious meaning: you don’t do it just for fun or because the sex is so awesome, or because you want to feel important as the wife of a deity, but because you have bonded deeply with a spirit and want to join in this very intense spiritual union with them. Business meaning: a contract, written or verbal, but extremely binding. You make a pact with a spirit, which equals a signed agreement aka contract in human terms, and then some. If a spirit urges you to marry them or tells you you’re obligated to marry them or are “theirs“ due to some past-life arrangement you had, you should be extremely wary. You have the choice to say no, and you can definitely stay on good terms with a spirit even if you’ve declined their marriage proposal, but once you have agreed, you’re in. I have taken my time pondering this idea, and have asked any and all questions I could think of, including stupid ones, and was met with patience, understanding and a great deal of openness from my spirit husband (needless to say, all my questions were not only answered, but I was also provided with further insights that helped me understand what I’m in for. Side note: I was also met with great approval for carefully drafting a marriage contract). Therefore, if you feel pressured or in any way uneasy, chances are your spirit partner may not be who you think they are. Please remember that you might also be dealing with your own fantasies, in which case you might hear nothing but compliments and assurance of your exalted position among others all day, inflating your ego and doing exactly nothing in terms of ascent, problem solving or progress.