my mother is a narcissist
Unfortunately i have to live at home due to being unemployed and difficulty getting jobs.
However my mother controls everything about my life.
I have partner and she picks arguments because she has no friends or partner so the minute i tell her i am going out with friends or partner she starts the guilt tripping And how my friends are not good enough because they go out and have a couple of drinks or they live with their boyfriends unmarried or have kids.
They all work and come from good families the only reason she hates them is because i want to go out and spend time with them
Im sick of it because i make plans then she remakes plans so ii need to go out with her or do what she decides to do
How do i stop her from bothering me? Or interfering with my plans? Although we are under the same roof. Its not easy for me because unemployment here is high and housing is limited so moving out is not an option
How do i stop her relying on me 247?
Since you have no choice but to live with her, spells to cut ties probably aren’t going to be that effective. It seems like the best route is getting her something to focus her energy on. For example, doing spells for her to find a partner or some friends to take her attention away from you.
You could also do ones for yourself to gain stable employment and/or money so you can move out.
Ask Earl Andromalius(72 in the Goetia) too help you break free from her influence over your life
and you can ask Duke Alloces(52 in the Goetia) to bind her so that she wont cause any harm to your life.
King Belial(68) is also another option
he is very much a spirit of independence, personal power, and he can help you break free from her influence
I had a narcissist mother. She isn’t going to “stop” her shitty behavior. However, here is a binding spell based on Egyptian magic. It will keep the worst from happening.
Get a strand of red yarn. In Egypt red was the color of evil and malice. Tie four knots in it, which is the number of completion.
Besides the entities others listed, you could also summon the destroyer god, Set, to free you from her and then give her what she deserves, including death. Also summon the jackal god Wepawet, who is “the opener of the way,” to help free you.