I hear ya, it’s so hard not to care sometimes, but really curses are serious stuff, and if it’s her situation and problem, I wouldn’t involve yourself magically. The only exception would be…and this is just my opinion …if she came to you for help and did something to free herself from him, then I would have her do the spell. If she won’t, then you’ll know for sure where things stand. Getting involved aside from protecting your own family and children, can backfire in so many ways, not to mention the fact that it can be dangerous to curse someone who has been harming you. There are any manner of things to take into consideration before you curse. I would strongly advise against it especially since you brought up the abuse factor.
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Yeah it took time for me too. I have anxiety and have Gemini moon too but I’m proof it’s possible to master.
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I am a Scorpio, and believe me I don’t hold back if I know my cause is a just one, but I tend to over think things and I am one who can care too deeply, so I have to check myself sometimes before I act rashly. With experience and time you learn these things, noone can tell you what to do, but still please think about it.
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omg I love meeting other gemini moons!!! I’ll have to look at your profile and see your other tips you’ve posted 
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I’ll stick to helping myself only & if someone does ask me for help on their own, then I will provide them help. I think it will take me a very long time to perform rituals for others because 1. i’m still inexperienced and 2. i would only want to do it if that is what i was meant to do, if the universe thinks that is my purpose. Who knows.
That is smart.
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yes!! its so much easier than affirmations. I’m going to make a separate post about all of the things I have manifested today using afformations
What you want to do will probably not work since you would have to forget about the ritual/spell in order for it to make you forget about the first ritual you did. A few tips: keep yourself very busy after the ritual, practice thought substitution (replace the thought of the ritual and its outcome with something else repeatedly until it becomes an immediate response ingrained in your subconscious mind), at the end of the spell/ritual you must be absolutely sure of its success or it won’t work for you and then you have to act as if it has already been manifest, that is by feeling it and not just believe it but know it and trust the feeling of knowing it. A better alternative to what you want to do is to just do another ritual after the one you want to forget, I noticed that by doing that you take your mind of the first ritual a lot easier and the more rituals/spells you do after the first one you initially wanted to forget, the easier it will be to forget it. There is no shortcut to developing the necessary skills to be a black magician, you need to keep doing the rituals and be completely to willing to fail until the time you get it right, your subconscious mind learns with the help of repetition. When you succeed you will have a deeper understanding of how it is done but you will understand it in a way that can only be understood through experience. Also you can take the help of subliminal messages that program your subconscious mind and you can use affirmations of your choosing that will contribute to this goal like for example " I quickly and easily forget about a spell when it is done" (there is an app for this both for android and ios) and then you keep listening to that and the repetition of these affirmations and messages will stick in your subconscious mind and at some level you will then start to believe this but it is then up to you to strengthen that belief by action towards success. If you have more questions I can try to answer them as well.
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Thank you for taking the time to type this out! You are right! I’m definitely going to keep practicing my magic + work on skills to help my magic actually manifest.
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You are welcome I enjoy helping people. I used to wonder the same thing you do but I learned this and it will help you like it helped me and others.
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Get the GOM of Magick Books- Inner Alchemy, and Arc Angels of Magick.
There are workings within those books for just the issues you’ve described.
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thank you!! i’ve been looking in to purchasing some books to help with my magic
Grab those both tonight, and start with inner alchemy first. Its very easy. Once you have done a few workings move on the next book. Once you change your inner your outer changes. So start from the root and work your way up.
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It’s not a ritual per say but a gesture that helps. In my rituals, I tend to burn things, creating ash (obviously). This ash holds all my emotion and desire for the outcome I am striving for. After the ritual is complete, I take the ash outside, remind myself what it holds, and throw it up into the air, visualizing it leaving me and entering the world. I then go and do something else
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I did this when I performed my own version of the layered love spell that is posted here on the forum! After I cried, A LOT, and then I just felt relief lol. Thanks for the tip
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Another idea. Ask yourself what could make you feel better at the very moment, except the result of your work. Let’s say if you’re banishing someone - what could make you feel better till you see him banished. May be new friends to enjoy your time with, may be more money or a trip… whatever. And go ask for this whatever and start working on it in a way that you’ll totally forget your initial work. Then all of a sudden while you’re enjoying your new self you’d see the results.
As far as your friend and her/his ex - I suppose it is about a reconciliation work. The time your friend starts working over the goal of being surrounded by partner (or partners) who will meer all her emotional and physical needs and forgets about the reconciliation spell her/his ex will come back crawling.
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I’ve been trying to focus more on money magic now to help forget about the other work I’ve done!!
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