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It’s a super duper long road that has brought me to this point but…I filed for an annulment of my marriage after 3 1/2 years. It’s pretty complicated but bottom-line our marriage was never consummated (his choice), I’ve put up with a lot of shit and would like to bring the situation to an end. I did the filing myself. We live in different states but he came back into my town today and I told him that he isn’t staying with me. The only reason we’ve stayed together this long is because he is probably the most persistent person I know and he wears me down over time and he knows this.
Do any of you know a good break-up or keep away spell so he will just let go??? He’s also a money guy and may have come into town spreadsheets in hand to request money from me.
Background is we both have our own places, our own bills, no children together, our own health insurance, and have never filed a joint tax return…
Any help would be greatly appreciated. I’m always a little on edge when he’s in town because I don’t know what he might do…