Siphoning, Vampirism & Transmutation for personal benefit and to indirectly help bf

[anonpdx]

Heyyy so I typed in siphoning, typed in vampirism, and transmutation, and I scrolled and scrolled and clicked on post after post, but still haven’t been able to find exactly what I was looking for so I was hoping you guys could maybe tag me in some posts on here or recommend some books, YouTube videos or YouTube channels to help with my specific goal.

So my man needs some tough love in my opinion. He constantly seeks out attention, validation, ego boost and temporary pleasure and gratification from women because he is insecure and for other reasons as well.

I have been trying to go down the route of encouraging him to stop seeking out this temporary gratification and have given him many suggestions of things he could do to work on himself and build himself up from the inside but he is literally refusing to do so and instead is choosing to keep continuously and consistently seeking out this attention, validation, etc., from women instead of doing anything to work on himself so that he doesn’t feel the need to seek this out and so that he feels better about himself.

I’ve already tried the nurturing, loving inspirational route and it is not working and he simply just keeps refusing to actually work on himself so that he does not need, care about or desire this attention, validation, ego boost, etc., from other women and actually work on feeling validated and confident etc within.

So now I would like to go down a darker route.

I’m not sure which thing would be best in regards to siphoning, vampirism, transmutation or all three.

But basically, I would like to take all of the time, energy and effort that he puts into talking to, engaging with and having sex with other women and not only use that energy for my own personal benefit, but I also would like for him to feel sadder and sadder and more and more drained and depressed and his energy to feel lower and lower the more he seeks this stuff out from women and only improve when he actually genuinely starts to focus on himself and his own personal goals.

I don’t want to just endlessly drain his energy. I want this to be very specific.

When he seeks this stuff out from women, I want him to feel more and more sad, depressed, and drained and when he stops and starts to actually focus on himself, I want him to feel better.

I also plan on doing some workings to help him emotionally heal, some confidence workings, workings to help increase his money etc., but to be honest, I feel like he needs to be taught a harsh lesson first.

i’m sure I could maybe just write a very specific petition and light a candle on top was thinking of writing his name nine times for permanence and then writing a very specific petition on top of his name, but I’m a little unsure about the best way to go about writing the petition if I were to use this method.

can you guys give me some resources, herbs or suggestions on how to best go about doing this?

[Virago]

So he’s sleeping with other women and refusing to stop, and instead of breaking up with him you’re resorting to vampirism? I don’t think that’s going to fix his glaring character flaws. That comes through introspection and inner work which you’ve already said he’s refusing to do.

[Virago]

I wasn’t even moralizing. I was telling you that vampirizing him isn’t going to work because he refuses to do the inner work necessary to change his behavior.

By posting on a public forum you’re opening yourself up to other people’s opinions.

[anonpdx]

He is not fully refusing to do the inner work, though I have done many tarot readings about this over many years. The issue is his divided attention. I literally just did a detailed tarot reading about this and I’ve had conversations with him about this.

he does want to do the inner work, but he’s holding back and refusing to go as deep as he needs to go and completely cut out distractions, and the only distractions are the other women he is talking to and entertaining.

he has business plans he has goals. He knows the stuff that he needs to work on. He just doesn’t spend enough time working on those things.

not only can I tell from our conversations, his behavior and other things my readings also confirm that these other connections that he engages in don’t fulfill him and only provide temporary gratification.

he had one spiritual awakening and started actually believing in a higher power the first year we met when he was an atheist before and now he’s going through like a second deeper spiritual awakening.

I am temporarily removing myself from the picture because at this point in time I’ve done all I can do in regards to being nurturing, loving and supportive. It is now time for him to be a man and face his demons and what not.

The main issue is him using women to distract himself from doing shadow work facing his demons and doing the work he needs to do to truly build his confidence from within and be a man which he is perfectly capable of doing.

He already feels drained and not truly fulfilled by continuing to engage with other women in the way that he does, but the little bit of personal gratification that he does get from doing it is enough to keep him continuously doing it, despite it not truly helping him or actually genuinely making him feel better or feel more confident.

Which is why I am considering going down the route of making those efforts drain him more and more. He already gets drained from it but clearly he does not get drained enough to make him say hey you know what I need to stop doing this and actually genuinely and authentically focus on myself and my goals.

The little bit of pleasure and gratification he gets from doing it, keeps him doing it, despite the shit not truly helping him.

[Virago]

I think you’re better off asking a demon like Belial to remove these undesirable traits. Paimon can also do this, but your guy would have to stop engaging in these destructive habits for it to fully take effect. Here’s the details of Belial’s special ability from the book Goetia Pathworking.

[anonpdx]

Nevermind guys I did a reading about it, and my guides advised against it said it would do just as much harm as it would do good.

[DarkestKnight]

I’m going to go against the grain here, and recommend an angel. Raziel has the power to free your man from old habits and break away from old behaviours.

[anonpdx]

Thanks guys I’m going to do some research on both of them