I sympathise with your predicament, went through pretty much the same thing until a few months ago. Luckily, I’m in sporadic contact with the goddess of Love, Inanna and when she came to me last time I asked her to arrange a girlfriend for me. Success came within hours and I have been dating this girl ever since. She really chose very wisely.
I suggest contacting some aspect of Inanna to achieve the intended result, which could be Ishtar, Astarte, Durga, Tara or even her Goetic counterpart, Astaroth, if you prefer sigils and whatnot. A simple invocation and offering should do the trick.
I’ve had some success but still not want I want to see happening in my love life. So I met a celebrity of sorts, way older and well off financially. I truly had forgotten how some of these celebs live coke, alcohol, general overindulgence was his lifestyle and to top it off he was married. I did enjoy him bringing roses to my workplace and apartment every week tho.
Now im kinda sorta ish dating this guy and have a lot in common he got divorced a few months ago and still battling with his ex in court. Another issue he is in crazy debt. He is also seriously addicted to cigarettes and is working on it. On the positive side we like the same music, have the same life outlook, he has no kids and generally he is smart. He is very moody sometimes tho and that gets to me. Anyway, we are taking it really slow and kinda have been getting to know each other over the past few months. I am really wondering how i’ve managed to attract two addicts. I am not an addict btw and ive never been an addict.
Anyway, in re-reading this thread going to try some more stuff that you all suggested and if anyone has any other tips please let me know. I know I can do better in terms of attracting someone that is more in line with my desires.
I spent some time thinking of what I really wanted in a partner and wrote out a list of specific requirements. Then I evoked the Goetic demon Sallos and gave him the list.
Met someone two days later.
Early days yet but as far as I can tell, he hits at least 95% of the requirements. And the list I wrote was about 50 items long.
Also there is a tiny catch because I overlooked including something obvious . Learn from my mistake – if you do this, be very specific. I mean including things you would generally take for granted, like “is single and wants a relationship”, “is straight/gay” (depending on your own orientation obvs), “lives in the same city as me”, that kind of thing.
As a loser, I can say that it’s basically law of attraction. You attract what you are. And if the available people you attract are losers like me, then you need to cover other areas before you look for a partner.
I did something similar, and I also added stuff that annoys me, but I can tolerate in the long run (I’m more laid back and don’t hurry, but they might be punctual and neurotic about that, stuff like that) - I think it’s important to focus on both the positive and negative stuff; in cases like this we attract other faulty humans
i find this hilarious hey pal if you are a loser that attracts losers hey what can i say but for sure i’m not a loser but I won’t bother to list the litany of things I could list to prove im not a loser. also i had a pm from a member here who do did a spell for me on this who apologized saying he may have accidentally directed some of his energy on the spell he is an addict.
The law of attraction is not an open and shut theory. For many people you simply don’t attract what you are and there are a number of extraneous factors that can cause this.
Fell your pain lol , it’s hard for me to find someone i truly love also , keep strong ur not the only one ,
We should create a dating thread here on this forrum lol
we’re in this together lol, I’m single to and ready for new love but it’s hard when first of all I don’t even go out and dating sites I’m done with until summer. it sucks to hear that my best friend got asked out by the guy she’s talking to but thinking of turning it down while me and other people don’t even talk to other people I do hope things turnaround soon because I’m eager to finally have somebody again
@anon96441209, yeah, I’m going to ask Tul, and Beleth for help after my marriage.
And @Angeela I’m sorry, what happened? I know it’s been a while, I think you told me of someone, I’m sorry it didn’t work out. Kind of like me and midnight.
Edit: it would be amazing to find someone from BALG
I know sometimes BALG collectively rolls their eyes when people keep asking for assistance in an area but honestly, I am so at my wits end right now. Everything else is looking up except this.
i went to work physically today to have a meeting and sign a new contract and after leaving I could not believe that i had no one to celebrate with. i really can’t believe that im approaching the tail-end of the good years for childbearing and there are no prospects and i can’t believe that i haven’t had sex in years. something is really wrong, my heart is heavy but i am trying not to dwell on my singleness because the spirits have been very good to me, without them and in particular the goetic spirits a lot of things happening in my life would have never materialized. I am forever grateful to the spirits.
And no I don’t have a physical issue either lol i am not overweight, im not like a poor dresser, i don’t have fucked up teeth etc. I am not a beauty queen but I look ok enough my mother has above average looks and a wee bit of that passed through the genes.
Normally I don’t believe in fate and destiny but thoughts are creeping in if i am destined to be single forever, is this an issue that is beyond the power of demons as it is superseded by “fate” ? why do my tarot cards keep indicating problems in this area in the long term. Is it that we just can’t have it all. Should I get a lancet and try a more powerful spell using my blood bear in mind i’ve used by menstrual blood before recently for the first time. Should I make a pact with lucifer for this.
I have the same wishes but no luck finding the correct person so I feel your pain, but I can’t say I have worked Magick on it so I shouldn’t complain.
Ok, you have mentioned demons. Have you worked with other spirits for this issue? Not sure how you feel about Angels, for example; just checking if you would consider other possibilities.
You could look into getting a donor for this, because it is the one thing you can’t roll the clock back on. Plenty of people have great “sundowner” relationships where they meet in their 50’s or older, and have a lifelong lasting love, and often those people are divorced, widowers, or single parents.
So everything else can be recouped, just not this one issue. Even if it doesn’t work out, at least you’ll know you’ve tried.
Ha xD feel you i start to feel the pressure as well , need to dive more into the dating scene problem is i don’t really find someone that i truly connect ,i kinda lowered my standards have some girls interested in me but doh they are way to normal for me , if they knew i dabble with magick they would have a shock , i always believed i more or less incarnated with a shoulmate to so speak out there but for the love of god i can’t find them xD where you from ?
Also true here in Europe where i live most of people are doing children from 30 + you stil have time
@virgospirit you know i’m a virgo as well…I am going to take your advice I have worked with angels but not a lot of results but then again I have only worked with them a few times. I like demons because they are fast, effective and they like me. I will take you advice though I bought a zanna blaise angelic book and did a love ritual once that should be done a number of times I will continue with it. I ordered an angelic deck and I am going to use it for this purpose too.
@silverleaf I can totally relate @ lowering standards … but can’t go too low…I am also going to adjust something about myself really less is best…a lot of these dudes it’s really just best to let them do the bulk of the talking that way you can do a better assessment anyway
I also feel like I need to muster up the enthusiasm and strength to do a long-term working on this issue. Literally I need to do a flurry of spells and a major spell to literally move heaven and earth to manifest someone. The truth is I have to be directing a lot of energy to other things though but hey I have to find the energy.
. Learn from my mistake – if you do this, be very specific. I mean including things you would generally take for granted, like “is single and wants a relationship”, “is straight/gay” (depending on your own orientation obvs), “lives in the same city as me”, that kind of thing.
i find this hilarious hey pal if you are a loser that attracts losers hey what can i say but for sure i’m not a loser but I won’t bother to list the litany of things I could list to prove im not a loser. also i had a pm from a member here who do did a spell for me on this who apologized saying he may have accidentally directed some of his energy on the spell he is an addict.
ur not the only one , 
I do hope things turnaround soon because I’m eager to finally have somebody again