I dont know.
All ritual work is aimed at only one thing, i.e. shifting your consciousness in alignment with the desired outcome. Consciousness is the only reality. Your experience is simply an arrangement of the contents of your consciousness. Considering the emotional attachments in such relationship situations, one typically experiences a mixed bag initially i.e. awareness of the āpastā, the ālossā, the āpresentā, the āfutureā etc. Only when you either acquired a genuine conviction in the successful outcome or learn to let go fully, can you truly see changes in accordance with your desire. The ritual works only as long as it aids the shift in consciousness.
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I have some experince with love magic. Let me tell you: as long as you think only about the outcome, nothing will happen. Put yourself on the first place in your mind, life, everything. Donāt do many different rituals, because itās shows that you donāt believe in their working. Peace, do something you like, do something for yourself. Stay positive, believe that you will get what you want, and RELAX 
everything is already working for you
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This is what is actually true but itās not amenable to many people because the idea that everything automatically works for them is rather alien
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Thatās correct. Iāve been struggling with the same thing for so fucking long time, it is still problem for me even today. But every time when I start any new work, I keep telling myself: āBelieve, believe, fucking believe, I want this to work, I want my desire come to me. I know itās possible, I just have to believeā. My mind sometimes tries to cut my wings, but then I always remember about my previous successes, I know what to do for magic to work, and this calms my mind down. I know itās hard, but not impossible
For the OP, what spells have you tried? Also its best just not to think about the person in general outside of the ritual setting, just to allow forces to do their work without interruption.
Also a bit of a troll move, i know, but take a listen to this, feel sad, and grow to become better
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Yeah itās just attachment to one state of consciousness, i.e. sensory info, memory, imagination etc. that can be a problem at times.
So, the things that I tried:
- situation no 1, I was not in the relationship, but I loved her (Yes, Iām homosexual :P) and she loved me, but there was some issues, which was my fault and nobody believed that we Will be in the relationship. So I tried the simplest sigil magic. I wrote down what I wanted and created a sigil. After almost 2 months we were in the relationship
- same girl, broke up with me and I used a spell where I used her Photo, sugar and some fire, PM me for full spell. Great success, she came back to me for another chance after 2 weeks
- same girl, next break up after a year. Here I was so desperate that nothing worked, too many spells, so little believeā¦ At this point I started evocation. Queen Beleth became so close to me. But nothing worked. After a year since evocation I realized that it actually worked, but not the Way I imagined it. I started to finally love myself, Beleth showed me that I donāt need anybody for my happiness, so she teached me how to love me, and I Will be grateful for that till the end of my life. But after this year I also found out that my ex is missing me and that she would like to live with me. When I found out about it from my friend, I remember voice in my head: āNow you can have herā. The point was, I didnāt want her anymore
Magic always works for you. ALWAYS. Even if not overnight or the way you wanted. It works the best for you.
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Hey Catalysis, I am certain some divine power has brought your story to me giving me the biggest urge to contact you.
I am in a similar situation to your post (also a big old gay) and my (currently separated) girlfriendās name is also Kate! Synchronicity!
I am relatively new to Magick and would really love someone to help guide me through a few spells to get through this difficult time.
Iād message you directly but I am a noob on this site and I donāt seem to have the option. Let me know what you think.
Sending light and positivity xx