First: Thank you all for the compliments but I’m not that knowledgeable. I’m still learning, still in the process. About Umbanda and Quimbanda, they are my religions in the past (not today because I choose to seek my own path, but I still in touch with his deities very often).
@Cleo If you break your vow with any entity you have to call them, apology and then asking to start a new one. You have to start from the very beginning. And please, be serious when you form a pact. You have to be prepared for any adversity that comes in your way. If the problem is travel, take the materials needed for your travel and arrange a time to do your prayers. That’s not only for Umbanda/Quimbanda deities but for anyone else.
@AtlantisFrequency I know that seems too little effort but here in Brazil, I have seen people doing less and achieving more. Let me explain:
Umbanda has one segment called “Quimbanda”, that so-called “left hand of Umbanda”. There we have a lot of cults in specific temples called “Terreiros” (it means “yard”, but the literal meaning is very different, so we call Terreiro even in English). There, we have Babalorixás and Yalorixás (Pai-de-Santo and Mãe-de-Santo, which means "Father and Mother of Saints), and they’re the highest echelon of the religion, so they “care” of the Terreiro. Of course, they have more direct contact with those entities and they even can get “possessed” by them (and believe in me, is something beautiful to see). In some of that opportunities, I have seen a lot of offerings for Pomba-Giras. A lot of times, Maria Padilha asked only for a good Sidra (a very, very cheap version of champagne here in Brazil), and them this people becomes, out from nowhere, sexy. Just for sitting, listening to Maria Padilha or Cigana and offering some Sidra. That’s one of the powers of Pomba-Gira: bringing sexuality to your life.
Obviously, some Exu will ask you a lot, like a great banquet as offering. But if some ask you too much, then probably is not really an Exu there but a charlatan.
@spiritofjj She will be more happy with your self-improvement than with any huge offering or sacrifice made. And, obviously, with some dedication in your relationship with her (as any other entity). The error of some people is to call any entity just in need and left them behind after that. Maybe you’ll be attended once or two, but this lucky will not last.
So, improve yourself, give some attention to your relationship with her, do whatever is in your pact with her and it’ll be fine.