So I did an obsession jar spell a couple days ago. No problem with that.
However, today I started to have flashes of memories and moments shared with the target and those flashes were not related to what I was doing at the moment. Nothing triggered them, just flooded my mind out of nowhere and it was kinda intense.
This isn’t ideal but I knew it could happen so I can live with that, for now at least but I was wondering, with these kind of spells, could the fact that the spell kinda starts working on you be a sign that it has started to work on your target too ? I recall reading something like this somewhere but I would appreciate to have some inputs