Are you obsessing over the result then? Here is a brief list of things I can come up with, in addition to the information already shared that could make a difference in results, to my mind.
I know I mention this all over, but those things we can’t not live without seeing manifest, or that we put that sort of importance on are often things that will not result and will eventually result in something that is a better fit for our life, because our human selfs will quite densely let people use us, lie to us, abuse us and extort us, especially if we care for them.
We won’t get out of our comfort zone and take opportunities right in front of us, even if they are better- because well we have fear and it’s not what we asked for.
We refuse to take actions we could because well, those people don’t and they get what they want.
We do things we know aren’t right or aren’t right for us and we expect somehow no one will notice or do anything about it or hold us accountable and if no one else holds us accountable, why would we hold ourselves accountable?
The number reason people don’t take responsibility for their actions? Embarrassment and fearing what will be said or what will be thought. They never realize most people understand we are human and make mistakes, combined with emotional exchanges over mistakes… we expect a negative experience when we admit what we did.
We forget that someone else could have a stronger will than we do and could supersede our want hands down without even knowing we are magicking it up- because it goes against what is a fit for their life and desires.
We think we can force anything we want into a tiny little box that is going to work, no matter how broken it is and if we actually get what we want?
Half the time we mess up being human and demanding that it wasn’t exactly so, because the dude or gal isn’t exactly what we desire and we think they should be, so we try to force them to apologize or never do the offense again- rather than recognizing that with as many people as there are, there’s going to be someone out there that’s almost certainly looking for the same things we are, if only we would allow ourselves to see it, instead of holding on to someone who never did and never will fit right in our lives.
We expect things be perfect, every moment of everyday and forget everyone else is human and struggling too.
We slam the door on people who could help us, because their answers don’t fit what we want to hear or we can come up with a 1000 reasons to not even try what they suggest because we are too short sighted to see our situation is exactly like theirs was, only the players and the name of the game are different.
We want to pretend we are not responsible for ourselves, our actions and our inactions, we think our reactions are justified because we decided they were, and let’s not even get into emotions.
We want a career and to be successful making loads of money, but we don’t even want to learn the material, do the work or retain the information.
We think we can substitute the google box for memory, as the information can always be found whether we can remember it or not- so we don’t.
When was the last time you memorized a phone number just in case? (All of you, this is rhetorical)
I’ve made a point of it, because twice in the last year I’ve been hacked, scammed and extorted by people I care about and I realized I didn’t even know my husbands number if something happened.
So we are innately lazy, we make excuses, we aim for goals that aren’t a fit for what we really should be doing on our own individual path, half the time we don’t even know what a good fit would be because we can’t Separate what we were taught, what is expected of us or what sounds good on a whim from what we truly desire and want to do and be, all because it usually doesn’t fit into someone else’s idea of what we should be doing.
We have shitty discernment about who to trust, we want to believe in people till they prove us wrong and if you do peg someone as someone you shouldn’t trust, they’ll try to force you. Charm you, turn it around, cause you to see.
You find yourself left with a mix of I should have listened to myself and well damned. What do you when people really don’t mean to, or it is a real mistake because they are human? Or they did it on purpose but how can you forgive them or trust others not to do the same, when we don’t take accountability for what we’ve done?
How does an average person even begin to discern some of these things if those with good discernment struggle?
So idk. If your giving way to much and not getting results for one you’re turning into a meat bag food source for an entity that isn’t delivering results.
If your spiritual hygiene isn’t up to snuff that alone can attract entities looking for a meal and cause issues of a whole other kind.
If you set up a pact, you agreed to a certain amount of time to work with the entity. That doesn’t necessarily mean the full result comes in that time frame and the results of a major pact to entirely change your life may start with making you homeless and loosing everyone and everything- all because you put those things above your result and didn’t let go of the things holding you back and prevent you from getting the results. (Please note the use of the Rhetorical you throughout, this is not aimed at the op but rather is an example)
These people usually see it go downhill then suddenly they have opportunities way better than they ever imagined and often they are closer to what they actually wanted anyways, even if they didn’t realize what they truly wanted or don’t figure it out until sometime 2-5 years after the pact ended and they are living the full results.
So. Why are you over offering, what is duration of the pact and what has resulted both for and against the wish of the pact, including what were the terms of the pact and what was your request in return?
I don’t see any specifics about the pact for us to begin to make an individualized assessment of what might be going on, so those details would help possibly narrow it. 