I have the gut that the problem is inside you, dear @CarpathisDralo.
You don’t really need any kind of tools to experience astral encounters and have sex with Spirits, at all. I’m sure they are not shy and I think spending real money to have sex with a Spirit (!) is very odd and not surprisingly, it won’t work just like that.
There are several methods what you can follow on BALG about how can you contact a Spirit or Demon to have sex with Them and develope yourself to your experiences/acts become more intense. Feel free to use the 
option here.
Anyway, you just joined on the Forum 2 hours ago, didn’t even gave us an Introduction which is a serious rule here. So please, do your intro before you posting again: