Friendly reminder people who haven;t been in for 3 months can;t offer free work (this is to give folks enough posts to decide whether they think that person’s work and general approach are suitable) and no-one can contact you offering paid work, it’s a forum rule to prevent folks getting hustled or scammed etc.
Try the freezer spell on her if possible, maybe ask a friend or family if you can’t do this in your own home: Vovin's Freeze Spell ~ from EvocationMagic.com
One thing though, if you’re desperate (which is understandable!) don;t just throw a bunch of different spells at this, or different people working without letting them know what’s going on, for example if someone uses a fire-based spell on her to “burn” her when she thinks of you, and you also do the freeze spell, it could clash and can even make things worse for you and/or hurt the practitioner, it’s really important.
Nothing wrong with having more than one working at once, just make sure they’re all aware and not clashing. 
Please don’t do that, I understand things look bad but she is the one who is out of line here, and you should be able to fix this with a bit of magick.